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Post published by Alex Leitch

Here is the root of the dilemma - If my NO has no value then my YES has no value.
Toughboy more_vert
Toughboy
If you're talking about giving in to temptations, I think your (our) NO has an enormous value
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Boulderguard more_vert
Boulderguard
He means if you tell someone you won't do something and then do it anyway, no one will believe you about the things you say will do. Your word is your bond kind of thing.
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Toughboy more_vert
Toughboy
Thanks for enlightening me @Boulderguard . You're definitely right about that @Alex Leitch
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Alex Leitch more_vert
Alex Leitch
I mean if I can't say "NO" to something then saying "YES" has no value. I struggle with pornography and can't seem to say "NO". So my "YES" is just as powerless.
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Alex Leitch more_vert
Alex Leitch
Jesus taught let your YES be YES and your NO be NO - everything else is deception and beguilement and vanity from the Adversary.
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Alex Leitch more_vert
Alex Leitch
This teaching empowers us and enlightens us. If I can't say "NO" to addiction then the "YES" is just more addiction.
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Alex Leitch more_vert
Alex Leitch
At the moment my "YES" is to posting my truth here. Even failing to stop watching porn my YES (to being here) still has value. That YES is an honest YES.
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Alex Leitch more_vert
Alex Leitch
And I say YES to being honest and YES to encouraging all others no matter what. I'm here for the fight. YES to the struggle.
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