Post published by Patrick82

Hello all,
I am currently struggling. During this Lenten season, I vowed to give up pornograpghy. It hasn't quite worked yet, but I will say that my heart and soul do want to purge this habit. It is really getting in the way of healthy relationships.
I guess this is my problem: I give up porn, then what? What is it that I am truly gaining? I know my guilt will subside and I can feel more balanced, but I am afraid. I don't have a man waiting in the wings for me at the moment, but I know that stopping is the right thing to do. Anyone else feel this way?
Thanks
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planters1987
I totally get it. Like why is it worth it if im still going to be lonely.
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planters1987
Does your loneliness outweigh the objectification of a person who has an inherent dignity? I have to remind myself that my suffering doesnt justify my actions.
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Patrick82
Yes, exactly! I know what the right thing is to do, but it will be a lonely, less traveled road for sure. Have you been through this too?
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Kris456
You will stop putting this mortal sin between you and God... your relationship with Him can only grow as a result. Also you will stop contributing to an exploitative industry that destroys people’s lives.
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