Post published by TeJayy

I have some honest questions:

What is there to do with a wife other than have sex? I mean, yes she'll have my kids and help me start & raise a family, but that's still somewhat sex-related. And other than cuddling/physical intimacy too?

I ask because the main thing & almost the only thing I think of when it comes to women are what they can do sexually for me. If I find a woman even slightly attractive, I struggle trying to percieve her as a friend without the potiential or possiblility that I may do something sexual with her or just viewing her non-sexually as a normal person. I blame the porn & my past experiences for me not really being able to imagine anything non-sexual related, but I want new thoughts to replace all these sexual immoral ones regarding women.

What benefit comes from having a girlfriend with no sex?

What benefits come from having a female friend with no sex or anything sexual?

And no I don't have any biological sisters...

And I respectfully ask that please noone tell me "don't look for/expect any benefits" or some mess like that. Because I'm being realistic here and I have dopamine re-wiring in mind too when I ask for personal benefits regarding women in my questions.

Please and honestly, thank you very much.