If I can do this so can you. I was looking at porn for 15+ years. What it has taken to get free is a daily plan. I get out of bed every morning with a mission to accomplish in life. I invest daily in becoming a better man. The type of man that "does not look at porn". And that is what I have become. Porn-abstinence follows developed character, not the other way around. Invest in becoming a better human being, and then you will become porn free. -Jon
Sounds good man congrats on reaching this far in your journey have much information for someone who's going for 90 days in currently at 37/38 something like that been in flatline for the full 38 this time and just wondering how your journey has been if you can give me information it be good it allow me to build a consensus and be able to help other better
@Crimson , thanks for the encouragement. Check out my other posts which are much more detailed about my journey.
Thanks for this post, that's what I had to hear. I'm just having strong urges but I want to become that person who is PMO free.
Congrats man, truly inspiring! How did you dissociate your healthy natural urges from your unhealthy urges? I've been struggling with this issue for awhile and looking for help.
How? By investing daily time into becoming a better man. My focus is not and has not been primarily on abstaining from porn, but on investing in growing my character. Daily time in meditation, affirming words spoken to myself about who I am, prayer, thankfulness, writing out my goals, contemplating what my accomplished goals will look like, and gradually I have become; "the type of man that does not look at porn." Porn abstinence followed the character growth, not the other way around.
"The Focus on the solution not the problem " , that's really a great approach that you follow brother , Congratulation from my heart ^_^