I just joined today and I want to know how I can get rid of my hair porn fetish, like liking women that are really hairy. It might not sound like a big deal but it's really messing me up inside.
I've had this fetish ever since I was 13, I started liking it because I got bored of watching regular porn, but the porn I watch now is messing me up
Fetishes won't just go away. Let's get that straight first. You will need to be very strict with yourself, it will take months and complete avoidance of anything sexually related to your hair fetish. You will also have to condition your mind to believe that you don't like the fetish, it was just a biproduct of P addiction. Beating P addiction is not an overnight thing, it will take many months of very assertive self mind control.
So let me get this straight. When you were 13 you were fiending for some hairy pussy? Lmao. You wrong for that. Besides you liking hairy women isn't really a problem, just don't watch porn my g.
It sounds like a porn urge. Just continue with your nofap journey. Over times these fetish or urge's will go away. I really like women's feet and now I look away as soon as I catch myself. If I want to rewire quicker, I remind myself I have to do this. This something that I have accepted. I will have to do this for the rest of my life.
Maybe just stay away from porn all together is the move here? If you have a wife or a girlfriend they might be open to not shaving. There is nothing wrong with body hair. I dig it too. Sorry I dont know of this is helpful.
Alot of Chinese girls don't shave anywhere. The hair revulsion thing is just a cultural practice. If a girl never shaves her entire life, the body hair is almost imperceptible. So, I am not sure this is a real issue for you. But, if you do want to reset your standards, I think that abstaining from porn for a long time will allow you to forget all about it.
fetishes are abnormal. feet are natural.. brown hair is natural..etc.. a lot of people have fetishes to "natural things" but the like is taken to an abnormal level which makes it a fetish fetishes and the reasons they come to be are ultimately not very understandable
I suggest that being attracted to bodies with no hair is a fetish. A hairy body is natural i.e. not a fetish. Desiring an adult body with no pubic hair, underarm hair, or hair in other naturally occurring place (chest, arms, legs butt crack etc) is a fetish. An adult is supposed to look like an adult - hair 'n all, not prepubescent child! Ugh!
okay its natural to have hair.. and its natural to shave nowadays. people have preferences but the extent that one likes/needs some things or preferences makes it a true fetish
I don't think it is fetish to like body hair.It is natural to have body hair. I consider Shaving body hair as artificial. And in most Asian countries men woman don't save their body hair. More over it is individual oppenion to prefer body hair or to without hair. Liking body hair dosent need to be considered fetish.
Hey @Hard gainer - welcome to NoFap! I agree 100% with your first post man. Bald bodies are fetishized IMHO.