First Time for men

Everyone remembers their first time. Keep that in mind when you decide who to blow it on, both figuratively and literally.

 

I dont know if its correct asking peopel to tell sex stories on here. It has nothing to do with Rebooting, but i get where you might be coming from...

Let me just say, that by the time I lost my virginity at 15, my penis was already messed up from MO at least 2-3x a day for over a year and i felt almost nothing. I was already numb from jerking off too much. I could not get a full erecttion, i came really fast, and it was a let down for me and the girl, and no real big deal. I didnt even like the girl, i was just using her for sex. And i was already ruined by MO too much.. so stop MO. Get time, and have a real heart connection and make love to a girl you actually like.

 

Amen

 

Just to be clear you're telling him to not wait for someone special and to just fuck in order to get practice so he can be more sexually experienced, right?

 

Thanks for the clarification.

 

"You want to have sex?! Really?! Tha- I'm done."

 

First time?
I was 21 with a girl who I met at a bar and who asked me for a ride home.
She was experienced.
In the driveway to her parent's house.
In the front seat of my 2 door Chevy Nova...google it.
I was in heaven then.
I regret it today. Wish my first time was with my wife.
My wife's first time was with me.

You can never get back something you have given away for free.
Your virginity is priceless.
Keep it safely packed away and give it away with a diamond ring to the most special person in the world.
You will never regret it.

FW

 

Still a virgin myself and will be 26 in July. Don't really care anymore, ha!

People tell you that your time will come. That story gets a little old after hearing it for a decade.

R.

 

Kind of like when people say "money doesn't buy happiness" or "it gets better" or "it's what's on the inside that counts".

 

I'm going to move this thread to the offtopic forum, the subject of the thread isn't relevant to rebooting.

 

I think nothing of like waiting til marriage/wife. Seriously i think this 'perfectionism' just sets up blockades. If you're with a girl and you like her and want to have sex with her.. I would do it. Thinkin to much about something usually ruins everything. Nothing has to be forever. Life is good.

Do what you feel is good for you. Not what you have been conditioned by maybe parents or religion.

 

I did what feels good for me and now I'm an addict, soooooooooooooo what's your advice? I ask because had I listened to my parents and religion I wouldn't have become an addict.

 

The first time was hilariously awkward for me. I was pretty young and had no idea what I was doing, it didn't help that she was a few years older too. Still enjoyed it though. I never looked at my virginity as something sacred OR as something I needed to lose as quickly as possible. My life didn't change and I didn't "turn into a man" overnight. In my opinion people who protect or "cherish" virginity are just as messed up as those who felt they had to lose it under a certain deadline. Sex is good. Porn is bad. Just my two cents.

 

Well, i usually don't give any advice, cause everyone is different. I just share experiences, which maybe inspire people.

If you think you did what felt good to you and it leaded you into addiction, then you maybe just weren't aware enough. I think if we're aware enough, we realize porn is not healthy.
And in my opinion a religion, which says you have to get married before you can have sex with a girl doesn't encourage a good awareness. It just makes you follow some rules someone has set up for himself a long time ago. This rule he/she set up for him/herself. But we're all individuals.
If I'm with a girl and I'm really into her, because i just like her and I feel comfortable with her and want to have sex with her now cause the moment feels good, but I can't because of some 'religion', i would say this religion is a prison.

 

I did what felt good. That was your advice. Maybe the reality is what is good for us doesn't always feel good nor does it result in us getting what we want?

Have you ever wondered why religions and others stress waiting until marriage? Could it be because these religions understand the power and impact sex can have within a relationship? Could these rules be the reason why our grandparents and great grandparents had marriages which lasted until death while our mothers and fathers and others who were born after the sexual revolution have nothing but divorce and broken relationships?