I think we can agree that both porn and prostitutes have a negative impact on your overall condition. I think we can also agree they are different. I think the only disagreement we may potentially have is whether they are different in the ways that matter. Since nobody here is trying to justify using porn or prostitutes, I hope we can simply leave it where it is?
No completely straight man watches gay or trans porn. That’s not how it works. If you are straight there is ZERO, I repeat ZERO desire to watch gay porn. If it ever pops up unintentionally when they were looking for something to watch, they would be immediately disgusted and click away as fast as possible. There are a million ways to “escalate” porn use while watching straight porn. So don’t think for a second that “escalation” can be responsible for your decision to watch gay porn. You already had those inclinations. You would already be very confused about your sexuality to watch that to begin with. The porn use did not cause it. If you disagree, read my first 4 sentences over again. That is how any heterosexual porn addict acts.
What’s your opinion on trans porn? Would that make you bi? What about femdom strapon? What if the strapon on guy started off as lesbian P then lesbian strapon p? Are you gay if you have an erotic massage with a female and she teases your butt and it kind of feels nice? Lol!
There are a million ways to “escalate” porn? So if you escalated into forced domination it means you were born with rapist tendencies?! What have you escalated into if you don’t mind me asking? There’s obviously a problem or you wouldn’t be on here right? Being gay is about being attracted to masculinity isn’t it? Trans porn was put in the gay section for years and didn’t get much traction until it was put with the Straight clips apparently. But maybe as the Ying Yang symbol we all hold a little bit of the opposite sex energies in all of us and if it’s fed it grows!
You sure can get them from non/prostitutes, but in a game of odds I think any sane person would go with a non prostitute over a prostituite, so kind of a ridiculous thing to say. Btw, you don’t actually think that condoms protect you from everything do you? Dude you sound like you’re off your rocker. I’m not here because I escalated. I’m here because I’ve been addicted to masturbation for 15 years. And not once in those 15 years did I ever consider watching gay or trans porn. Did I seek novelty by watching different types of heterosexual porn? Sure. Why do you think trans porn was put in the gay section, genius? Hopefully that answers the first question you asked me. Yeah no, but there is something called hormonal imbalance.
You sound like you don’t really know what you’re talking about tbh hun! Go on then what novelty did you escalate into?
Yeah straight men don’t call other men “hun” either. Maybe try leaving your gay tendencies to yourself instead of projecting it onto others. I don’t need to describe what heterosexual porn I watched on a forum that’s meant to help people avoid porn, genius. I’ll give you a hint though, it was very normal in comparison to the filth you’ve got yourself into.
The way I see it, any porn and any prostitution is a misuse of sex and there's no sense in pointing fingers at who is worse than the other. Points to you, @The worst is over for not going into detail with the fetishes, but we don't need to act like boys about this. We don't understand sexuality all that well, and we don't understand why certain people gravitate toward certain fetishes. It could have been any of us, given the wrong circumstances. I'm asking both you and @Wave tamer to let this drop.
There are levels to everything. We know enough about sexuality to know that straight men don’t intentionally watch gay porn, under any circumstance. Otherwise, they aren’t straight. I’ve had enough of people on here acting like that’s normal behaviour for a heterosexual. It’s not. Just because this forum is a congregation of people with major issues, doesn’t mean it’s common or normal. Do not blame porn for your behaviour, blame yourself. Escalation as a concept has some merit to it, in the confines of your sexuality. Don’t start applying concepts to scenarios that are completely different. These things do not need to be sugar coated for the sake of not offending anyone. They need to be told the truth.
Thank god you’re here to spread the truth! You seem like you’re very angry, homophobic and secretive about your tastes. Yours are obviously towards the controlling/abusive end of the spectrum probably trying to make up for what you’re lacking or maybe to feel some sense of power now that you wished you’d had back then. It’s ok babe you’re safe here xx
“Do not blame porn for your behaviour, blame yourself… I don’t want to trigger anybody!” Ok: “God I’m an idiot for being a homo amen” I feel so much better now, that’s awesome. Have you thought about running for president of Nofap X
Man, don't waste time with that dude, he is just a hater. He come to a positive community to hate, it doesn't make sense at all.