I feel fucking empty They have made me believe that sex was the best thing in the world, and it was a fucking lie. I'm devastated, do men really cry for not having sex? Casual sex is the biggest lie in this society, I have not felt love, I have not felt pleasure, I have not felt anything. It has completely opened my eyes, if you all felt the way I do right now, there would be 0 S IMPs today. Don't give a fucking shit for any woman you don't love madly. Dedicate yourself exclusively to you, sex is not the answer. Do not do NoFap for having sex, because you will feel empty. Build your life, and only have sex with a woman you love.
No shit. Best to channelize libido into presence and love. Love rooted in lust is shallow and energy draining. Lust rooted in love and respect is deep and fulfilling.
Wow congratulations for reaching 430 days of semen retention! It's more than a year man, congrats! But yeah I guess we all understand this feeling of emptiness. Before releasing we think it won't be that hard, that it won't affect us that much. It is after we release that we realize it hits us hard and notice in which good state we were previously - specially after reaching 100 days and more.
Musta been a really shitty lay for all that. Get you a good woman, start a relationship and try again. It is good.
Don't feel so bad about it. If you truly did 430+ days on hard mode, it was an achievement in and of itself. Probably you were bursting at the seams to get some action, right?
430+ Days - Brother is really really a great Achievement! I feel you brother, If it wasn't due to oversexualized social media things would've been different! " Sex Sells " - is a sentence that have been used for marketing purposes! ( In Tv, Social Media, Social Circle... ) This thing is not Healthy! I suggest you Learn from it! And Forget about it! It's a Bad Experience forget about it and move on! Next time try chasing the though when it's too small! Also Cut Off any Influencer who Impact Such an Action, There is no Action without Cause and Effect.
Learn from it, and start as if it never happened! A Horny State of the mind is 100% different than a Conscious State, Don't blame yourself too much - It's Biological thing, next time don't let your guard down. May ask you something - What Influenced that to happen in the first place ?
Sounds like a Proverbs 7 scenario. At the window of my house I looked down through the lattice. 7 I saw among the simple, I noticed among the young men, a youth who had no sense. 8 He was going down the street near her corner, walking along in the direction of her house 9 at twilight, as the day was fading, as the dark of night set in. 10 Then out came a woman to meet him, dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent. 11 (She is unruly and defiant, her feet never stay at home; 12 now in the street, now in the squares, at every corner she lurks.) 13 She took hold of him and kissed him and with a brazen face she said: 14 “Today I fulfilled my vows, and I have food from my fellowship offering at home. 15 So I came out to meet you; I looked for you and have found you! 16 I have covered my bed with colored linens from Egypt. 17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon. 18 Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning; let’s enjoy ourselves with love! 19 My husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey. 20 He took his purse filled with money and will not be home till full moon.” 21 With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk. 22 All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose 23 till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life. 24 Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say. 25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. 26 Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. 27 Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death.
Man. I so feel u. I ended up like this. Twice. After 300 days hardmode. Its so devastating. Nobody who has not lived thru this has any idea. And I always ended it with so bad ppl. One girl spit my semen out in a toilette... havent seen her any more in my life, I also fell ill short after because of how devastated I was physically and mentally. What a purgatory. And even if I did not nut, the act of sex was extremely underwhelming, even after 100s of days hard mode and many years of not seing P or doing M. Sex is so over rated.
Can't lie it is more to do with the way you went about doing it, having sex with a girl you actually like is heaven and anyone saying otherwise has had trash sex. Anyway you are right having casual hookups makes you feel empty inside but its addictive