I never use to like this stuff or want to do this stuff but now its the thing that turns me on the most usually. It feels like it just gradually got worse and worse.
Absolutely reversible. I’m straight, but attracted to transsexual or gay porn (or gay attracted to straight porn). What’s up? Does porn addiction cause irreversible damage to the brain?
Sexuality is so strange, and sometimes, complicated. I'm into milf and transwomen porn. I think that if we'll stop watch this crap we can only be and do better, so, it is. I stopped myself for fapping and after days it's go incredibly better. Our paleolithic brain makes us do the same error. We can win!
I have gotten rid of a large number of fetishes in the last few weeks. Some went away rather fast, some are still bothering me. It's possible to get rid of them.
I think it depends. Was there any sign of you being into this fetish before you got into porn? In which case it'll probably stay with you to some degree. I only mention this because I was a chubby chaser when I was a young lad before porn. And I suspect that porn has only intensified my interest in BBWs and even larger women still. When I do finally kick the habit, I think I'll probably still be into fat chicks -- but nowhere near the size that I find myself browsing online. I guess we'll see.
You might have been exposed to some form of porn the you were too young to remember. I have gotten rid of many fetishes recently but I still have many, some of which from before I started watching porn. How do I know they aren't "the real me"? Because I don't want them. Clearly they have been caused by some outside influence because it was before I got interested in girls, sex, masturbation, porn.
It's in the realm of possibility. Personally I have no problem with it. I think it's fine to be into different body types. Other stuff… not so much
I had all kinds of fetishes, transwomen, very rough sex, pissing, gang bangs, sharing my girl whilst I watched and on and on. When porn is out of your life and the cravings go you desire a real woman again. Her touch, and her smell, it feels amazing to get it back.
Yes, I feel yes, everyone has their own type of woman they like and "core" traits they like, traits you like in porn stars are just fueled by lust and attributes of their bodies...when you look for a partner you care about your own emotional needs, like you want a partner to be caring thoughtful...
There's nothing "wrong" with these things if you are genuinely into them. The problem for me was it was all porn induced. I went to a swingers party with an old girlfriend and had a very good time. However since I quit porn I find myself more focused on the woman I'm with rather than the fetishes we used to enjoy. If in future I'm with a girl and she and i like the idea of me watching her, then I'm ok with that. No shame at all. As lo g as it is real and not porn induced.
I think it's def porn induced never thought about it before the addiction. I wonder also if it's related to low self esteem.
You give me hope I relapsed again tonight and I noticed I was finding something else I didnt ever like before appealing. It was turning me on. I deleted all my porn off my computer and any other traces of it. Im going to beat this bullshit ive caused. Do you have a good porn blocker btw?
Not really when I first started watching porn it was all about the girls. The girls were what turned me on. I never once thought about anything I do now.