Thoughts about relapsing...

SandsOfTime · Oct 5, 2018

If one guy is killed by others/himself mean its a complete family destruction.

Whoever kills a soul, without [its being guilty of] manslaughter or corruption on the earth, is as though he had killed all mankind, and whoever saves a life is as though he had saved all mankind..

Deleted Account · Oct 6, 2018

Mattew said: ↑

Are those problems related to porn or are they about other issues in your life?

Remember that strong suicide thoughts are parte of the withdrawal symptoms, i had a lot of them, they will pass.
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Other issues in my life. Not porn at all.

goodnice 2.0 · May 16, 2019

superninjared said: ↑

TLDR
Dating is like a game where nobody wins. And it feels like it does not matter if you PMO or not because relationships these days feel meaningless. Marriages fail, husbands PMO. Even celebrities can’t stay together. People complain about being single but they have become so spoiled with all these matches they don’t take it seriously. Because they know they can always find someone to talk to. They can effectively just swipe the world away.

Dating
So I have a pretty good streak going here. It won’t be long before I’m well over 90 days! Unfortunately I’m starting to get disillusioned with dating... And it’s not because I’m struggling to meet girls in fact it’s the complete opposite! So I use online dating a lot it’s my primary way for getting dates. I’m picking up phone numbers so easily, far too easy. Over 20 girls to talk to and 4 dates so far. So you are probably wondering why I would want to go back to PMO? Well as amazing as online dating is I think it’s ruined dating in general. And this includes doing approaches it’s all the same. Those girls you approach they have online dating profiles or they have tried it before. My problem is nobody takes it seriously anymore I’m not kidding. Relationships are like a game. After years of trying to get a girlfriend it feels like such things are fantasy now. All of the girls I’m talking to are single. They have been single for so long they don’t even know what a relationship is anymore. It’s the same old stories. Career focused, lots of bad dates not ready to meet people. Always travelling, always working, single mothers. No time to meet no time to date. So many guys to talk to indecisive. Put it off for a few months. Same old shit different day.

My last date said she thought we had no chemistry. I was her fourth hinge date. She ghosted us all... Clearly a serial dater... The one before that, it felt like she friend zoned me before we got to know each other. Dinner date, meet her friends, go to a bar meet another friend. And then joking that one of them is single. And then acting like we all friends making it hard to be romantic. She already friend zoned her last date and did not tell him? Seriously? Does nobody care about dating anymore? And one of her friends (they were all girls) was supposed to have a date coming. He didn’t show. And she was weird the whole night asking me if she looked normal? Honestly it’s like the world has become undateble. Is it even possible to have boyfriend girlfriend relationship that work? The girl I met before that was just angry at every guy. Because her last dates lied to her. Secret family and girlfriend.

My first date this year she was just so busy and conversation died. It’s always the same so predictable relationships don’t happen. Also talking to another girl she was married now single. Met dozens of guys gave up on dating for a while. Disabled her dating profile. We still talk of course and joke about the state of dating.

Everywhere you look it’s the same! I have no doubt I can get more dates but if it’s just going to be the same bullshit over again what’s the point? Maybe we were born in the wrong century I’ve become very sceptical. My mum keeps complaining that I should be married with kids. I’m putting myself out there nothing happens. I see the same girls on dating apps year after year. They are always single everyone is single. We have created a society of spoiled babies who don’t know what they want anymore...

So now I’m thinking about relapsing. Because I crave sex and this dating game is bias. We have bad cards it’s just a joke now. Sure it’s fun having all these chat buddies. Oh look at me I have so many girls to talk to. They send voice messages and pictures. So many online friends....

What to do? Anyone see this differently? Better respond quick it might not be long before I relapse...
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Hey bro i totally feel you and ya maddeningly frustrating. Social media and online dating have spun things out of control. I think you must find a girl irl though. I will tag you in a post i made regarding relationships..

Also @justafriend SEE!!! It’s not just something wrong with me.

And @flox you are wise to not focus on girls. Please do keep focusing on yourself!

Deleted Account · May 17, 2019

goodnice 2.0 said: ↑

Hey bro i totally feel you and ya maddeningly frustrating. Social media and online dating have spun things out of control. I think you must find a girl irl though. I will tag you in a post i made regarding relationships..

Also @justafriend SEE!!! It’s not just something wrong with me.

And @flox you are wise to not focus on girls. Please do keep focusing on yourself!
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Yes i was in a dark place back then... Luckily i am out of it for now. No thoughts of relapsing i want to get past 90 days again. I am already seeing the results from detoxing my body from PMO. Libido coming back.

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