I have been hearing stories that semen retention makes women more attracted to you. Do you guys have personal stories around that?
Hey bro I didn't feel anything like that certainly because I don't look good these days I have a crooked nose and acne scars on face because of my past karmas although I am tall and have athlete body type I don't feel any attraction....have patience.
I don't particularly think this is true unfortunately. Maybe it could be a good motivator for you thought If you want to believe that. I believe it has a non direct effect. The 'semen retention' you're talking about I don't think it's what makes women more attracted to you by any means. What I do think is that due to this retention, confidence, energy and overall happiness levels are all increased which is what girls are attracted to (objectively speaking). That's my theory let me know what you think. Goodluck with your journey! Stay strong everyone Zach
Attraction happens because when u get out of any destructive addiction spiritual Aura becomes vibrant and strong..... Please look at some stories of swami vivekananda Not only girls get attracted to u Some times boys feel jealous looking at u because u look so attractive...
It isn't rocket science. When you don't empty your balls you have more motivation to seek out what you want.
I use to be invisible to women, but now they stare, smile, and sometimes say hello. I'm guessing the retention of semen causes it be absorbed back into your body. There must be certain nutrients in it that have a positive effect on your attractiveness. My eyes look way better and my skin is much softer, so I would guess these are the main reasons. Part of it too, is your mood. Having an addiction can make you feel depressed, so you may be walking around with a frown on your face.
There is some truth to this. There's more testosterone in your body when you don't fap. So to make it simple there's a little more bass in your voice if you know what I mean. Also women are more attractive to YOU. "That's for you and your girl to fuck around with" as my boxing coach so eloquently put it.
This is the biggest paradox of all this. On the one hand, I do not have spectacular story to tell, but on the other - something is on the subject, there is a magic that we do not have the right to know. Evidently, women will notice you, they will just feel much better in your presence. And you'll be much more productive during the day. In my opinion: Your brain is beginning to improve you very much, because it has the impression that it is useless to women (when you masturbated, the brain falsely thought that everything is okay, that you just impregnated a woman … But this "superpowers" are your NORMAL state. State that you had before you watched porn & masturbated.
I don't think that it's directly retention. Women can't physically sense that stuff. The attraction comes from the fact that the lack of fapping causes you to carry yourself better and have more confidence. Of course, I'm not a stud so I don't get that stuff myself
I wrote it somewhere, but I think that I can be proud of myself - " Imagine that a man who does not masturbate is like a full bottle of champagne, but after masturbation is like an empty bottle with a bursting cork. And now let's think about it - which bottle looks more attractive? Which one everybody wants to choose?" NoFap attraction works. Women are superior when it comes to feelings, it's true. They can sense everything - Shame and guilt when you masturbate, but can also feel like a goddess with you if you are like this full bottle of champagne.
I don't like to believe in this vague fantasy magical type bullshit. I like to attribute my success in life and women to the improvements I've worked hard to develop. But sometimes interactions with women and people in general becomes weirdly too good to be true. I say things like "what the hell was that?" or "I wasn't that funny" or "why the fuck is everyone being so positive around me?" So I don't know what to think of it really. I'm going to keep working hard on developing myself and my reality. Doing things that are in my control. So whether or not it's real, I'm still heading in the right direction. If I have some sort of mysterious power from nofap, I'll take that too. One thing I do know for sure about nofap is that I'm a lot more expressive, aggressive, and assertive than I am without it. So if it's real, then it's a lot like having talent. We should still work hard rather than coasting on talent.
I was the one who thought NoFap is bullshit & especially that attraction thing. But when I started my first streak around after 7 days I started seeing woman are smiling at me, noticing me. But I thought it can be coincidence. So after 14+ days I had to convinced myself that it's not a coincidence because woman were literally touching me out of nowhere. My WhatsApp account suddenly started flooding with messages, ex said I look different now and she wants me back, It's not just woman but men started giving respect. I am not saying you are wrong, but results may vary person to person. you have to be patient because healing takes time. Keep your mind clean from lust. Attraction happens when you least expect it, and believe me it will shock you. I remember one incident I would like to share, month ago(on day 24) I was traveling in bus and there was one girl standing front of me, suddenly she started standing closer to me & rubbing her butt towards me(I knew that was intentional because there was lot of space in bus) but she was doing it again & again. After some time she asked me about myself & do I have gf? I was clearly able to see that she wanted me to fuck her. Never happened in my past life. So guys, this is real shit. I do believe in experience rather than anything.
exactly! But I have a strange question: do you really experience the greatest miracles after a long period? I have to admit that the greatest magic is around 7-18, and I don't feel as great. Maybe then I become too used to this new state and women can feel that I need them very much and I lose this specific peace in conversation.
When I started expecting attraction, it happens less. But when you don't expect it, it happens and will shock you. Just don't stop to improving yourself, cold showers, kind heart, help others & clean thoughts. Meditation helps a lot( I do it in cold showers with turning on Lord Shiva's Songs). The vibrant & positive Aura & glowing eyes is magical. It's like universe is on your side when you are disciplined on NoFap.