Why Do We Straight Guys Whack Off to Videos of Alpha Males Having Sex?

There's no such thing as ethical non-monogamy. You're just adding fancy words to make up for a disturbing habit and to still think you're monogamous. You're either monogamous or not. If you're fucking others, you're not monogamous.

The fact that you watch your girl railed by others is also deeply disturbing.

That does not make porn normal or healthy though. 30 minutes is a very long time, and also 30 minutes too much really.

You also don't have to "relieve" yourself. That's not what sexuality is or how it works.

 

That's Islamophobic and anti Semitic, yo.

But amazingly, you might be right. I have genetic markers that can be traced back to the old testament prophet Aaron. So genetically, it'd make sense I would want to stamp out such depravity with the sword.

 

No dog is being harmed when fucking a woman that sits on her fours either.

They can definitely live as desired. That doesn't mean that they can change the meaning of terms. There's no such non-monogamous monogamy, that's a oxymoron.

"Ethical" in that case is just a word thrown in there to cosmeticize the whole situation. It has no place in there and adds no real value to the situation. The point was that you can't be non-monogamous monogamous, that's an oxymoron.

 

You need to live up to your own standards. I expect an apology for your microaggression against all middle eastern peoples for the assumption they're all into killing smut peddlers. That statement was really bigoted and ignorant. All humans are exactly the same, right, right? Now where's that apology at?

 

That doesn't make sense. The dog simply chooses to do that as it arouses him. Dogs mount a lot of stuff, they don't have to be forced to mount a woman. I know this is deeply disturbing but that's how it works. He is not forced at all in many cases.

 

Where did you get nonmonogamous monogamy?

 

We are ethically nonmonogamous. We are not monogamous. Do you need further explanation?

My partner is a woman, not a girl. Why is it disturbing to watch her have sex with someone else? Is she my property? Do I control her? Do I dictate who she sleeps with?

 

I can relate to this. Porn doesn’t get me off anymore unless the guy has a huge dick. Not because I like dicks, but because I like watching the girl handle it. Yes, that’s the level my porn use has escalated to. I know I don’t like dicks, but porn just don’t work for me unless the guy is big. Even though it’s not the dick itself that turns me on, it’s the woman... if that makes sense?

 

Yes it does. Maybe this is an analogy that works. I love men's div 1 NCAA basketball. I can't throw a three pointer for the life of me but I sure like it when someone else does.

 

Yes, of course you can. The same way if an animal is hurt, it will feel pain and you can compare him to humans feeling pain. In the case of this type of sex act, the animal feels pleasure and no pain and is not negatively affected in any way. Consent is just something you're adding to rationalize it being unethical.

"ethical" makes no sense.

Because it just is lol. No sane man would do such a thing. Sex is about power and control also, and you give her away to be controlled in the most primate way by another man. That is deeply disturbing. If you don't get the decision on who she fucks, she is not your partner. She is, at best, your acquaintance.

 

Never have I ever said porn had any benefits. But 30 minutes once in a while isn't going to ruin your mind. Sure, you shouldn't watch it at all because you never know where it might lead, but there's no harm in doing so once in a while ONLY IF YOU'RE CAPABLE OF CONTROLLING YOURSELF.
There's also nothing wrong with relieving yourself. If you do so in moderation and don't let it take over your life, like most people do, there's nothing wrong with it, it might feel good and help you relax. People here have turned masturbation and porn into these diabolical things that are to blame for problems they themselves created. Right, porn is not a good thing and is not necessary, excessive masturbation and porn addiction are VERY harmful. But fact is - most people are capable of controlling themselves in that regard and do it only once in a blue moon without it distorting their views, corrupting their minds and taking over their lives.

Got it.