currently on my day 41 of nofap. I've just finished having sex with my gf and couldnt cum. I believe i went from PIED TO ANORGASMIA. Can anyone tell me wether this is ok? thanks bros, much love
You didn't have an orgasm, so you do not have to reset your counter. But I would advise you strongly to stop having sex. Otherwise it will complicate and slow down your reboot. Your objective is to have a healthy sex life, of course. But trying to achieve that now will only be counterproductive. You have not even been going 6 weeks. Talk to your girlfriend and explain that you need to have a break from sex for a few months. Give your brain a chance to recover from the abuse its had.
No the point of doing all this is to be able to have normal sex with people. And being with someone helps rewriting process go faster.
I’m in ur same position. Anorgasmia isn’t the worst cuz girls might be okay with you sexing them for time. Like a sex machine or sth. That’s a positive spin that I put on it but Ye don’t worry it won’t last and soon you’ll be bustin nuts. At least the ting is hard and that part is done.
@Zimzi, you say: "The point of doing all this is to be able to have normal sex with people." So, we agree because I said: "Your objective is to have a healthy sex life, of course." You seem unaware of the difference between rebooting and rewiring. Having sex during rebooting will make recovery go slower. Rewiring can take place later but it will not speed things up.
i've been informed that sex strenghtens neurological pathways of dopamine towards real women which is what i need. I believe it has an opposite effect since my libido is up the roofs and i have no desire but to bed her. maybe, the fact that im 18 years old and had this addiction for aprox 6 years shows that my brain is not that heavily damaged