Like seriously, I really need something more substantial than the usual 3-second long friendship-hug I get at the end of a night out. I have had two proper cuddles this year and that's not enough. A man needs a cuddle. I was doing fine stoically pushing through my awkward attempt at moving abroad and making friends and dating casually until I read this dumb article about how effective physical contact is supposed to be for relieving stress and anxiety, and now all I can think about is cuddling. It's not even sexual, I just really want to blast the AC and put on a warm sweater and be the big spoon for a girl with nice-smelling hair. How do I make this impossible dream a reality?
I completely understand where you're coming from bro. I'm desperate for that too. It's not sexual. It's just a comfort thing that makes you feel really good and special.
Why the sense of hostility? Some guys crave more physical contact than others. There's nothing wrong with that.
I apologize for being hostile, it just seemed strange thing to say, never know who the trolls are - the post I responded to prior was definitely a troll.
Mate I'm not a troll I'm really lonely and I'm better at trivialising my feelings with shit humour than actually adressing how bad the total lack of physical intimacy in my life makes me feel :\
You sounded sincere to me. But, honestly, guy.... R.E.B.O.O.T before looking to others for well-being or deflecting to S-subs. IMO, it's more relevant and effective (in the long run)... Best of success to ya!