I've had a problem with kissing for years and it's in the way of me getting a girlfriend. I find the act too intense and too intimate. I don't want to do it. Unfortunately women seem to always expect some kissing before moving on to the next stage.- (I'm not so awkward about sex) I'm thinking of saying next time: 'Sorry I don't do that'... but I've never heard of someone saying that. Or I'd like to learn how to improve my kissing and relax and enjoy it more, but is that even possible, can it be learned? I know most guys like kissing so I'm in the minority... but I'd like a bit of advice on what to do. TBH I'd prefer to just skip it and I wonder if most women would mind a kissing free relationship? ( at least at the beginning ). Thanks.
My wife used to like kissing. But in the last 3 years or so she stopped. She told me once, "I don't like that". I said, "But you used to". And she just said, "Well things change". So now we don't. So I guess you can find someone who likes or doesn't like nearly anything. And even if they do like something it can change.
I do not want to kiss my husband when I am angry with him. Even slightly irritated. That being said, there was a period where his oral hygiene sucked and I was just disgusted with him :/
That is surely true. The problem I think here is that the first kiss between a couple is generally considered very important and meaningful.. ( movies have been quite influential here ), it's like a rite of passage.
Honestly, if I was dating someone who was really terrible at kissing, I wouldn't mind if he just owned that and said "hey, I'm really terrible at kissing, so you should teach me how to be better." But I don't speak for all women. Some might not like that.
Hey Milenial, maybe you could try interrupted,short kisses instead of continuos ones. If not, you could do it for her, knowing that she will be turned on. Sinceryly, I dont have experience with this, but I've read Zen stuff and Victor Frankl so... my best wishes
Yea, from your other posts you're super open-minded. The women I personally know aren't in your league when it come to that.