Please do not underestimate yourself because you'll never know what happen in the future. All we have to do is prepare for getting a chance to make dream come ture.
Yeah, I like this sentence, so freaking dead true. We just get ready and make ourselves AVAILABLE. We can't really force it. Although being ready is very hard and is a long term, painful process that creates a lot of value. The foundation of this process is NoFap hard mode.
I think considering oneself too bad is a form of pride; you are considering yourself especially different from anyone else. its the same as thinking you're better than everyone else. we are ALL just normal people, even celebrities and even royalty. we all bleed red, and we all have to go to the loo. no human in the world is divine.
You gotta find your motivation with other things and NOT women. Besides, God hates Idolatry, and in the modern day Simp men idolize women and will do anything for them, to the point when even if it means their own destruction. Things are just absolutely absurd in the modern day. Jesus just needs to come back quickly and just burn this whole thing down.
Your story touched my heart; I feel I want to cry. You have to know that unfortunately life does not give us what we want most of the times.
I'm quite a bit younger(19), but my outlook is quite different. I see no point in lowering my standards. I will keep snowballing my success until I get the girl I feel I deserve. I am tall, have excellent bone structure in the face, have excellent muscles, charismatic when I want to be, am highly intelligent, have/will have interesting hobbies and am driven. Main thing is for me it's hard to find a woman who I feel is even worth the risk as feminism has significantly decreased the quality of women as romantic partners while also increasing the threats posed by even looking at one, let alone hitting on one. Which in turn makes me not want to develop myself as a person as much. However, I will keep developing myself as a person regardless, so I can seize the opportunity when it finally arises. Things like child support, legal semen and impregnation theft, false rape allegations and legal paternity fraud have made casual sex unwise for men as well.
I don’t think it’s “stupid” to worry about this. A fulfilling relationship is something that most people hope for in their lives, and it can be disappointing when that doesn’t happen for you. I know this feeling of disappointment all too well. I noticed that there are quite a few men who post about this topic in the loneliness section. I also noticed that this site is now offering support groups, so I’m wondering if there are any support groups on here that cater to men having a hard time in the modern dating market. I would be interested in such a group as my therapist has recommended I seek out support groups for men facing this situation.
I really believe that women are attracted to a man by how much of his potential he achieves. A guy who has small potential but takes it all the way, has a lot better women attracted to him than a guy who has great potential but sits on his duff and plays video games. One guy has achieved 90-100% of his potential, even though it was only to be a low-level manager. One guy could have been a senator, a CEO or a doctor, but plays video games so he gets nowhere. Why is it that women see a man maximizing his potential and are attracted to that? How could they even see it? I can't answer these things, but one thing is for sure, when a guy starts to burn hot and gets to 80+ %, women are interested.
It is but nobody wants to believe it. Women don't understand it and guys hate it because it REQUIRES WORK! But it's the truth.
I know someone has prolly already said something stupid, so I need to chime in here. You are allowed to have standards as a man, even if they may be considered unrealistic. Reason being most women also have unrealistic standards that they will never be good enough for. Standards(particularly personality) protect you from unnecessary threats such as gold diggers.
There were a lot of years where I thought about women that I used to like who had rejected me. And I kept looking back, in morbid reflection, to think, why not her or her or her? All roads, I thought, led to Rome. But it got darker because next I'd be thinking that if these all said no, so would all the rest! Oh how much fear! It was like an ice cold dagger in the back. But the solution came to me accidentally. When I did my first reboot, I said, why not try to do my Yoga every day for a month? Just see what happens. If nothing, then drop it. But I lost 29 lbs of water weight in that month, with no change in diet. I hadn't expected that. So I added on the diet, added cardio, some weights, quit sugar, quit coffee. Towards the end of the reboot, I'd lost almost 100 lbs. Women were interested again. Everywhere I went, there seemed to be a flirt. That's why I think that the reboot brings out the best in a man, to bring him closer to his potential. It could be in fitness, in business, in hobbies, in school, whatever. Maybe all. You earn that attraction from women by suffering and working towards your potential. Then you'll have many available options. They'll just be there, you won't need player game or that nonsense. She's just going to be there. How and why, I don't understand, but you can guarantee that women love a guy who is a winner.
