Comments on Profile Post by sfmark12

Yes it is but some battles were fought to be won.

Yes man, keep the optimism going no matter if you relapse or not. That's one thing I learned and still trying to apply it.

How about not relapsing? If you do you do but how about aiming for just not doing it?

Urges get really strong especially if you have the chaser effect. Relapses are just a fall and must be taken as a learning lesson.

I don't disagree. I'm just asking why you are accepting relapses as part of the journey. I have had nearly 2 weeks now of constant horrible urges where it has become so bad I have physically cried out for them to stop yet I have NOT relapsed. Why can't you that's all I'm asking? Why must an urge lead to a relapse? An urge is just a feeling. You're making the choice to relapse.

Damn dude, I don't have that type of willpower like you have thats why. But I am getting there.