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Im just wondering after all this time if this is still the right thing to do (Nofap) and My mind isn't just being Brainwashed by mass Thinking or just trying to fit it or the status quo...
Nofap is great and I do feel and love the benefits but Is it worth the sacrifices I have to make in order to pursue it like my happiness as I've cut off all my triggers which were my only source of happiness...
Im still going to pursue it though just... I dont know actually
Nofap is a common solution that seems to work for everyone but there are certian exceptions where It would be better to just minimize your porn usage and continue as normal isnt that right @Aiyoshi@WoundedSoul and @Frühlingstimme or to find another way...
you know best, you know if the sacrifices make sense or not, you gave up those things because you knew it could lead to a relapse. it's not healthy to give up all your sources of entertainment and enjoyment though so you gotta replace them with something else to fill the void
if you gave up dota theres no reason for you not to play age of empires 2 or something, there are lots of alternatives out there for the same source of entertainment to fill the void
if you still have doubts then you will have to go to the direct cause, which is your desire and attraction towards manga and dota 2 characters, i have a blog post scheduled in 8 hours on my nofap motivations, basically it's about how I'm changing what i'm attracted to in order to live a better life more fitting to my circumstances
i've also made sacrifices, i only go to a few number of websites now and have quit 4chan, i'm filling that 4chan void with reddit and league of legends now, you don't have to remove your enjoyement but simply replace it with something else that gives the same reward and feeling
Thanks Success For the support... You're completely right Imade these sacrifices because I know it's for a good cause and They're always alternatives to fulfilling Happiness in our lives...
Sorry I let something I read in another persons Journal and Mine get to me...I need to start really putting my foot
Be prepared to the case where the original feels better than the alternative.
Also it came to the point where I'm questioning what the hell is going on.
what made you start your nofap journey in the first place though? im sure you have a reason, you might have forgotten it, nofap isnt sacrificing anything, it's improving, if you spent your time on stuff that brings you temporary happiness but backfires in the long term, you might as well do other stuff instead that does the same thing but without side effects
@ Aiyoshi lol me too I dont know what happened was affected by a bad case of doubt but you're right about the alternative...I dont know I'll wait and see but Im not going to retrace my footsteps abd return to who I was before..(More in my hournal)
@Tera You've never been more right there and you've given me much to think about..Thank you for your contribution my friend :]
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