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Comments on Profile Post by Stongerwithout

  1. Deleted Account
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    Yeah, i would definitely be better off... but now I'm picking up the pieces and shaping my life where i want to be.
    Nov 26, 2018
  2. Stongerwithout
    Stongerwithout
    I feel that we should use that regret to build a better version of ourselves. The version we are meant to be.
    Nov 26, 2018
  3. Deleted Account
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    Have you ever read the 12 steps? Although it's a book focused on the recovery of an alcoholic, they are principles applicable to any other addiction.
    Step number 8 is to make a mental list of the damage we cause to others with our addictive behavior.
    So that feeling of guilt that you now experience is very good for recovery.
    Nov 26, 2018
  4. Deleted Account
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    The point is not to focus on the feeling, but to channel it into acts in order to redeem ourselves.
    So, keep going, don't be discouraged :-)
    Nov 26, 2018
  5. Stongerwithout
    Stongerwithout
    Its funny you should bring this up as one of my best friend's who is a recovering alcoholic told me to look at step 8 last night. Thanks for the encouragement.
    Nov 26, 2018
  6. Deleted Account
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    Really?
    That's a funny coincidence :)

    The next steps will also help you a lot.
    I wish you all the best in your recovery.
    Nov 29, 2018