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Any advice, please.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Yaji98, Jul 29, 2014.

  1. Jul 29, 2014 #1
    Yaji98

    Yaji98 Fapstronaut

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    So, last week I achieve 5 days without PMO and I felt great! It was the longest time I didn't M for a long time. however I relapse.

    I have a girlfriend and we are on a long distance relationship, we talk a lot via Skype and last week one thing led to another and we end up having a "virtual relation" which usually ends with us MO. I don´t know if that counts as a relapse but wile we were doing it I had a a strong feeling that it was... I still have that feeling, but I didn't knew how to stop that with out making her feel bad.

    I love my girlfriend but she doesn't know that I have this addiction. I need help on what to do or how not to relapse again. I have two days with out M but I feel that this time was much more harder than the last one.

    I will appreciate any help from you, I am glad that I have a place to share this kind of this anonymously.

    Thanks.
     
    Yaji98, Jul 29, 2014
    Yaji98, Jul 29, 2014
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  2. Jul 29, 2014 #2
    Third_Eye_87

    Third_Eye_87 Fapstronaut

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    You have to set up specific guidelines to how you want to go about this. Is it just P you want to stop or MO as well. If you dont want to M you should be honest with your girlfriend and tell her whats going on. If she cares about you she will understand youre trying to do something good for yourself. If doing that sort of stuff with your girl is a trigger for you to do it again by yourself I personally would recommend not doing it at all.
     
    Third_Eye_87, Jul 29, 2014
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