I haven't been out here much lately. I have made it through another year without porn. I am amazed at what my life looks like now. Leaving porn has allowed me to have a great marriage, build a business, and have connections with guys from all over the world. For those of you just starting out, I never thought I would see this day. But, over time it has gotten easier and easier to stay away.
amazing. congratulations. you have worked, look at yourself in the mirror and know you are a true man.
Very inspiring thank you for sharing! Pray for all of us to follow in your footsteps and earn that sense of accomplishment and satisfaction you worked so hard for
Wow, 7 years is amazing! Out of interest did you start on just no pm or no pmo? Also how big a problem was pm for you before you decided writing
As a young rebooter suffering from PIED. I would love to hear all the benefits that you've gotten from the years of no PMO! How exactly did you have a great marriage because of NoFap and etc? - Captain
Wow just wow. Salute to you sir, you have conquered such a difficult task and I think that deserves a pat on the back or at least an award. But let's be honest the biggest award is right with you "your freedom" your life must be so good now I can only imagine. Congratulations sir
Because I am married I still had the O, so I just started no PM. I was watching porn for 3-4 hours on business trips probably 3 times in a week. I got started on porn at the age of 5 and quit at 43, so porn was a big problem.
The first benefit was self-respect, I had lost it because of the lies and shame related to PMO. I have trust from my wife but that took time to rebuild (although I can teach you some faster ways to fix it). I have a great marriage because I am investing in the relationship that I always longed for while looking at porn. I figured out that I didn't trust her, even though I had totally broken her trust in me.
i like that trust issue you brought up . I didnt and still dont trust my ex. She violated trust many times and I did the same , my tendency though hss been to dismiss, rationalze or intentionally forget my own dishonesty and betrayels of trust while pointing the finger at her and resenting her. A case of the pot calling the kettle black. thankd