cuckold is killing me

Try stopping to fantasise. Your going to get a wife sooner than you think

 

What's this cuckold..sounds weird..

 

You can beat this bro. One day at a time. Stay connected with us.

 

If nothing else at least you see yourself as the one doing the fucking and not the one watching. Still messed up and not something that is healthy.

I think all porn is cuckold porn. You are watching someone else have sex with a woman. Maybe looking at it that way might help? The main thing is to tough it out and get a long streak going and the urges will decrease. I had a long streak going for awhile and didn't have the struggle that I have now.

 

Hey!
If you're asking how to reduce your fascination with cuckold P: the answer is that a hard-mode reboot seems to work best.
If you're asking how to reduce your fascination with P in general: the answer is that a hard-mode reboot does seem to work best.
If you're asking how to stop secretly wanting to be the bull to a cuckolding couple: the answer is that a hard-mode reboot would seem to work best!
As you know, a reboot is not just about what you do _not_ do... but very much also about how you look at life and love _instead_. We need to clean our inner selves from the dross of (fetish) P. If we do not do that, and think we can rely solely on the brain to "auto-clean" I think the chance is very great that we'll ultimately return to past practices, since we'll have no fresh experience of intimacy.
So.. if you're asking how to do an effective hard-mode reboot: the answer is to use the time rebooting to find better ways to love. (I just had a 75-day streak: that was not enough.) So keep the reboot up as long as necessary: then it'll work best.
Best of success 2 u!

 

Do you really have to propagate that bullshit term?

 

cuckold is a type of porn in which husband watches/record while wife performs sex

 

You gotta understand that Porn is not OK... if you go to some more 'normal' porn you will just go down the ladder again.

Dude.. You have to Quit the Cuckold porn and ALL THE PORN.

QUIT ALL THE PORN!!!!!!!!!

(By the way don't feel bad... this shit is really really common).

 

I believe all this cuckold crap is just another variant of a totally desensitized brain seeking the next big scandal to get a little bit of dopamine. I wouldn't be suprised if it should turn out there are no genuine cuckolds at all but only really fucked up porn addicts. Maybe this choice of genre also reflects the lack of self-esteem and self-disgust one develops through porn addiction? It could be some kind of compensation to punish oneself caused by the self-hate that porn induces. Just a hypothesis though.

But yeah, quitting porn will get you rid of all weird fetishes eventually.

 

^This times a thousand!!!

My favorite p of choice was cuckold, so I know how addictive it can be. I actually even brought this idea into my personal life. But I've also been educated now on what this crap actually is. I'm telling you, the best thing is a hard mode reboot and to stay away from porn for good. If not, well, all I can say is that it can lead you down a dark path you'll regret.

 

Its where husbands watch their wifes get fucked by a other man. They find it arousing that their wife's get fucked at camera .. yep

It can even cause real people to do this in real life and force their wife to do that. there even amateur porn for that its pretty fucked up.

 

Insanity at it's best..

 

Divorced Recovering Cuck here who finally has found a good relationship that I do not want to mess up.

I have been through all the fetishes but this one has been the hardest to break.

At first with my ex-wife it was the ticket for me to sleep with other women. After all, if she is sleeping with another guy I can sleep with other women. We started going to swingers clubs before the alcohol and orgy of a marriage became crashing down. I still have her tattoo on me as a cross to bear.

Now with my new love interest I am struggling with the need to think of her getting railed by some other guy in order for me to reach orgasm...

Slowly I am getting better...

Cuckold is some evil shit...

 

Good analysis, good advice, and not being judgmental is good as well! Way to go, guy!

 

I relate to this thread so much. I've been married for last 3 months and due to porn addiction, we can't cosmumate.

It had caused PIED. More porn I watched more kinkier I wanted it next time. So at after some level I got stuck a cuckold porn and would masturbate 3, times a day at times to it for like last 6 years.

It has messed up my mind so much that apart from ED that I even tried to convince other men to have my wife and and vice versa and I'm so embarrassed.

Currently im trying to fight it out and get myself rewired.

Whoever is still single , I suggest keep fighting before you find someone special and lead a perfectly happy life.

All the best to all you.

Love
AK

 

Perfectly said.

 

Congrats on your marriage.

As it's been pointed out on this forum many time before - the fact that you can PMO shows that the gear works just fine - the rest, as I'm sure you know, is all in the mind.

Take comfort from the fact that those who bang away like rabbits at the beginning of their marriage can often grow tired of sex with their spouse.

Yours is the slow burn. Take advantage of this time to focus on your wife, and learn all the different ways to satisfy her, without PIV.

Gradually your brain will adjust back to normal responses to a naked young woman.

And stay a million miles away from porn...!

 

Indeed thats what porn is. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interpassivity someone else is doing what we cant.....