It can be anything. Good, bad, indifferent. If you find the right person and you do it when u both feel ready, and you truly care about each other, it can be an experience that you remember and treasure all your life. If you do it just for the sake of doing it, if you don't really care about your partner, if you're drunk...then it wont be as special. If there's any force or coercion involved, it could haunt you for years. It will be as special as you make it. Find the right person, do it at the right time and don't take what isn't offered.
Lol, i did it just for the sake of it. It was okay, but overall a disappointment. Maybe PMO was messing with me then... Still, i would of liked it more if a was more open with my gf back then.
I agree it what you make it. It can be just a mechanical movement, a basic instinct or it can be two souls mending into one. Sex can be really beautiful and bonding. Now Im a virgin too but I want my first time to be special with someone I love.
In my case it was traumatic because of PIED. Moreover, other than me, the girl was quite "experienced" and it all went too quickly. I just played along, although I had feelings for her - I didn't know any better. Having sex with my last girlfriend was wonderful, though, at least when I hadn't masturbated within three or four days before.
It was with my wife, and it was very good. With a little practice, it became great. Then came PMO. That did nothing positive for it.
Well I can tell you it's probably a hell of a lot better with a partner or someone you're comfortable with, a random hookup isn't the way to go. I wouldn't recommend it. A combination of anxiety and probably ED from pmo for me
Mine was quite simple, couldnt get it up at first, once its up went in, unloaded like a flash grenade, not sure whether pmo made it worse or thats the way it should be but neither of us enjoyed it.
It was kind of traumatic for me because I was not yet ready.. We were not even in a relationship to do that . .
Well my first time was odd, met a girl in a party she was drunk we danced then she told me to go to her house, said "hell yeah" then we had sex i couldn't even orgasm maybe out of being nervous then she fell asleep and i spent hours contemplating existence.
Can be great and something to remember for life, and can be awful, it depends on thousand things, but on first place depends on partner you choose.
I hooked up,with a promiscuous girl, had a night of fun and then the next week she moved onto the next guy So in retrospect it sucked ass. Would have preferred it to be with someone was deeply interested in me. God bless the easy girls though.