Rare Problem (Rant)

I feel that I can discuss it here because everyone here seems good...

I have a problem with the over-sexuallised 'society' we live in, bombarded with sex memes, people talking about sex, etc. We live in a perverted world.

I was at Subway a month or two ago and I swear I overheard a costumer say to another 'How many guys are you f******?'
The other replied 7.
I'm like who talks like that, especially in a public place?
Things seem to be more catered to sex. A dating website I was one had a thing 'sex or politics', like they are the only two things that matter.

I found no evidence, not even close that anyone else has the same problem.
When I see it, is triggering for me and really upsets me and causes me to become anxious. I'm not sure why exactly.

I think 'society' has become an awful place in general, so perverted and degrading, etc.
If you were to visit porn sites, you would see a lot of disturbing content that not only normalises porn in every way, but things like incest.

I've read many things, artciles and stuff how the over-sexualised 'society' negatively affects people, nad how people shag so young, and boyfriends/girlfriends are demaging more disturbing stuff, if that makes sense. I wish I could remember when and where I read it.

So many people think it's a good thing. I think at least some of them are afraid to to say that it's not becuase of how their words can be misinterpreted, so it's all for all, if you know what I mean, throw everything in, it's all good.

If I go on a webcam site, one of the disturbing things is that it quickly gets into something sexual, generally, and people just go along with it. It really is toxic.

The weird thing is, I watch porn, but I don't like it. I can't explain. Maybe a part of me secretly does, however there are a lot of contradicting things like that about me.

I'm wondering if anyone has this problem? I'm not sure if any of what I said made sense.

 

Yes we do unfortunately live in an oversexualized world that seems intent on reaching lower and lower levels of decency everyday. Are you saying that the more you think it is impossible not to become addicted to pmo or relapse because we live in such an oversexualized world?

 

Can you elaborate?

 

I now read an article on it, where cultural marxism does promote sex and it is directly tied to the sexual revolution. Those same people that advocate for freedom of sexual expression are the same ones who get upset when women are being sexually harrased.

 

Our culture has become hyper-sexualised and I think it relates to our perceptions of identity and purpose. When we have a materialistic perception of reality and only count the physical as true, then we begin to worship physical world phenomena and think of ourselves solely as physical beings. People are obsessed with food, sex, their bodies, getting more stuff, making our body feel "good". Even on this site, a lot of people are just here to get their body to feel good again. But I think that true health as an individual and a society, is both material and spiritual. In the west we are materially wealthy but spiritually poor. We have excess of food, sex, money and yet our hearts seem to yearn for more. I think when our society grows spiritually (develops wisdom, love, selflessness, harmonised community) then we will be able to manage the physical aspects of life with more wisdom. So material wealth will be more justly distributed, sex will have a more healthy place in people's lives and won't be such an unhealthy priority, nor will our media be so saturated with it, food will also be more moderate without so much excess that leads to greed and health problems. Everything comes down to making our sick society more healthy and balanced.

 

Yes, I think, if I read that correctly.

 

Amazing post with great analysis.

 

It is possible to overcome PMO. Many people have done so even with the pressure of society and the media.

 

I knew that someone would say something like that. I am saying that: people keep advocating for the freedom of sexual expression for both men and women but more so women while at the same time they get upset when men only see them as persons to be objectified and seen as solely sexual objects. I am not saying that it is right.

 

Lmao what you described at the subway is all my frat and I talk about it. Listen, I'm gonna sum up everything in one paragraph. You don't have to read the other replies.

Everything in life is revolved around sex. Literally makes the world spin. Listen when you wake up in the morning what's the first thing you do? You think of pussy. When you go to work n what do you think of? Pussy. Nobody can dispute this, unless you're a straight female then you'd think of dick I guess idk. I'm not a female. Pussy keeps everybody sane. Nobody will say this, bc it's "crude" to say but I don't have a filter when it comes to certain things. I tell it how it is.

Please understand what I'm telling you is a universal truth. I hope you can cope with it better, I really do. Best of luck

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No, it is not the first thing I think about in the morning as a straight male. I do not let female body parts control me like a zombie.

 

I realized

Is not control brotha. It's not supposed to be a fantasy. It's more like how can I get pussy today. It's in our genes. Like I said, not debatable

 

Well that is you. I have more important things to think about.