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How serious are the addictions. You have no Idea. From Soft to Hard to BULLSHIT

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by neatandclean, Jun 29, 2014.

  1. neatandclean

    neatandclean New Fapstronaut

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    Yes. I will say it's bullshit.

    How the fuck it even started ?
    We all were innocent and didn't know. I'm posting this, to show my anger to myself not to the porn industry .

    It was those old days, Soft porn.
    Then Hard Porn.
    Then Fetishes which make no sense.
    Then From fetishes , I am sure, it goes on.

    The thing is we are being manipulated by the porn industry.
    Why ?

    Our insecurities, they use it in the porn now.

    Humiliation , Feeling like a loser, all that bullshit. How much can you make a human feel bad ? I mean. This was too much.

    They are not only humiliating men. But women also.

    We are not losers.
    We are as equal as other normal and good human beings.

    I am writing this to just get out of this illusion that what ever porn promoted was right.

    What ever, porn promoted in the videos was wrong.
     
  2. Good post.

    Yes, these things are illusions and that is one of the main reasons I will never PMO again. It's all fake, lusting after images on a screen that you cannot even touch.

    It's sucking the life out of many men. It's indeed time to wake up to higher ways of living.
     
  3. monke

    monke Fapstronaut

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    Yes, all true. Especially the thing with manipulation.

    Have you heard of Pavlov and conditioning the dog ? Google it !!

    You can eroticize every object (glasses, boots, hats, different hairstyles) and every human feeling (power, humiliation, shame, pain, jelaousy). Everything can be eroticised and turned into fetish.

    But be aware that fetish is not static, it has to progress. But in what ? In everything porn industry wants you to go !! They create their own market making people miserable spending hours on porn and wasting their lives, relationships, jobs, hobbies, money.

    It's a Devil's circle in which everyone is humiliated and degraded users and performers !!
     
  4. The whole fetish thing is a good debate.

    Some fetishes are innate within an individual. They are not all created via porn.

    Take me for example. I've had a particular fetish (nothing creepy) since I was a child, before I even laid an eye on any type of soft core porn, before I even knew what it meant to be sexual. Still while I was at the highest form of innocence basically. Certain desires have always been within in me. Some desires or fetishes you're born with.

    I was about age 9 when I realised I was interested in a particular 'thing'. I didn't even know what porn was, and had never laid eyes on it yet.
     
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  5. neatandclean

    neatandclean New Fapstronaut

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    :) We need to get out of this crappy circle soon. Before things get harder, lets just get out of it.
     

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