Hi All, I'm currently in the early afternoon of day 8 with no wanking or porn watching. The other night my partner and I engaged in sex. The problem is, my ball sac was so full of cum that I came within 2min. I washed my penis and we began again...... The same thing happened again..... The 3rd time I lasted 15min and the 4th time was 2min again My fiancé couldn't orgasam herself because of the the "stop, start" motion. She used sex toys on herself and it took all of my will power to keep going back and make her organsam I was so humiliated by this experience, usally I have no problem stafisfying her. I barely stafisfied myself with how quickly and often I cum'ed Would it be cheating if I were to say, wank the morning before sex? I know that my personally goal is to not wank. However if I can't enjoy sex because of it, I'll 100% cave! Does anybody fund that quitting "cold turkey" is to much? Is it best to Eas into it? My partner wants me to stop this challenge because of the issues it is presenting EG: not been able to sleep, angry/stressed, energy drained and of course not been able to have good sex. I really, really want to beat this addiction but I can't go without sex and I also can't distress my own partner. I honestly don't know what to do! PS The only way I could find to post a new thread was to go into my inbox and click the link from Alexander about posting in the introduction section. How do I post a new thread, without clicking that link every time?? Thanks for reading
Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you. I'm just reading your post so before I respond, what is your progress up to Today?
Hi DJ, Thanks for getting back to me, I was beginning to give up on using this forum. Well today is day 13 of NoFap. The first 10days were defiantly the hardest. I am finding it easier now but still not easy. I haven't clicked on any porn website since posting this a few days ago. I even removed all the people I followed on Instagarm, just because they posted revealing pics (this was obvious porn sub). Funny enough I have no sex drive recently...... I'm not even getting an erection. I foresee this becoming another problem that will effect my partner. I am already a depressed individual but lately I've been thinking a lot about suicide, a lot! I have began 2 other physiological challenges recently, I figure if I'm already bettering myself then I may as well do it the best I can. So yesterday I began the 100 days of rejection challenge and the 100 days of greatful challenge. Their both very interesting stuff! Thanks again DJ, Nameless
You are too important to leave this world, you may not currently know what your purpose but I know that your journey will help someone going forward so whenever that's thoughts return, doubt your doubts as opposed to listening and accepting them as fact. Ask yourself if those negative thoughts are really true because, since you are still here, a part of you knows those doubts are false. If you ever want to talk via private message, please do so. .
