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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Lacrossemofo, Jan 16, 2017.

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  1. Jan 16, 2017 #1
    Lacrossemofo

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    I just need to tell everyone what ive done and how I want to change. Since New Years Eve I have been binge watching P and having S with my girlfriend. Its getting out of control because I cant stop watching P and doing these things with my gf. Its not a good path because Im going to get addicted to P again and using my gf like this isnt going to make it better. Im spiraling down a bad path and I need to stop this. Anyone with any type of advice would be helpful. Im just trying to get better by beating the enemy addiction. Now that Ive got that all off my chest I feel a lot better. I want to start a streak of no PMOing for atleast 30 days. It would be great to have help on this difficult journey ahead. Thank you.
     
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  2. Jan 16, 2017 #2
    Deadlihood

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    Good luck, man. Rooting for you. Be sure to delete potentially triggering social media such as Instagram, Snapchat, etc.!
     
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  3. Jan 16, 2017 #3
    Lacrossemofo

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    Thanks ill have to do that cuz instagram is definitely triggering and brings me back to P so ill have to delete it.
     
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  4. Jan 16, 2017 #4
    Deadlihood

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    Nice.
     
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  5. Jan 16, 2017 #5
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    Does your girlfriend know about your porn use? If she does, have her help you find ways or reasons to not do it. If she doesn't... I'm not certain what you should do. One thing might be to tell her asking for help, but you'll have to judge if that's the direction to go or not. I'm by no means anything other than a beginner myself.
    DH
     
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  6. Jan 17, 2017 #6
    Lacrossemofo

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    No I haven't told her about my use of porn. I think it would be a good idea to tell her about it so yeah she can help me find ways of not watching it.
     
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  7. Jan 17, 2017 #7
    Kennen

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    Get a life.. Focus on school/career rather than porn..
     
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  8. Jan 17, 2017 #8
    Jorbtrek

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    It's useless to tell an addict to focus on work instead of cheap and easy pleasure, which has had it's ugly fingers on you for
    years or decades.
    It crawls into your thoughts while you try to concentrate to something meaningful. It's like if you fear spiders
    and you know one is in your bedroom, but haven't seen it for a while. It's hard to sleep and be off guard when you
    turn out the lights.
    PMO is just like any hard drug which causes intense craving during withdrawal. Withdrawal symptoms are both physical and mental.
    First step is to recognize that your problem is destroying you and commit 100% to the healing process and remove all P around you. Just like any addict.
     
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  9. Jan 17, 2017 #9
    Proceed

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    I would also tell her not to have sex with you for a while. You can keep each other accountable. Who knows, it might be fun. And also, stop watching porn
     
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  10. Jan 18, 2017 #10
    Lacrossemofo

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    Tough to do when porns so much easier then say a social life or job. But thanks for the idea
     
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  11. Jan 18, 2017 #11
    Lacrossemofo

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    Very true..
     
    Lacrossemofo, Jan 18, 2017
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