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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Romans724, Jan 3, 2017.

  1. Jan 3, 2017 #1
    Romans724

    Romans724 Fapstronaut

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    Hey everybody. I'm 16 years old, and I've been addicted to pornography for about 3 years now. As a Christian, I know that what I'm doing is wrong, but I fell into the pit and I can't crawl out. I've tried to do it on my own, and even had a period of about 3 months where I was porn free last spring, but eventually I was sucked back in. Every time I fall into the trap, I come out more depressed and self-loathing, and afraid that I'll never be able to overcome. I know people always say that accountability, and admitting your problem to somebody close is the best way to get help, but I am too afraid and ashamed to admit to anybody that I know that I struggle with pornography. I figured that here I can still have a community of people to keep me accountable who can relate to what I'm trying to do. I know deep down that people in my life wouldn't judge or hate me for what I've done, but I still can't get over the barrier, my fear of man is just too great. Anyways, I really hope that this site can help me overcome my struggle, and get out of my awful cycle of depression.
     
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  2. Jan 3, 2017 #2
    jnater

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    Welcome to the community! Be sure to read through some of the forums--there's a lot of great stuff here.

    As a fellow Christian, I can relate to knowing that it's wrong, yet struggling to get out. It's possible, though, through Christ and through our own efforts.

    I don't want to pressure you into admitting your problem if you don't want that, but I would like to share that my own experiences with rebooting have changed dramatically since I started talking to my Mom about it. Did it suck to go and say, "Mom, I've been masturbating"? You better believe it did. But was it worth it? Definitely.
    Since I opened up to her it's been easier for me to get through the guilt when I relapse. She's been able to celebrate when I say, "It's been a week since I slipped!" But the most significant part for me has been that now, the two of us are working together to help keep my little brother from a similar fate.

    Maybe you don't have that kind of relationship with your mom or your dad. Maybe you could find a friend, or a church leader. Or maybe, for you, NoFap is enough. You'll have to decide that on your own. But yes, you can do it. I can do it. We all can. Eventually.

    So welcome!
     
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  3. Jan 3, 2017 #3
    D . J .

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    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.
    I would suggest joining the group Christian Fapstronauts who will encourage you through prayer and scripture.
     
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