HELP PLEASE READ

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by IWantToBeAHuman, Jan 1, 2017.

  1. IWantToBeAHuman

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    Today my girlfriend and I had a arguments in text . she told me that I don't know how to show my careness to her . I think she's right .
    I don't know what to do .
     
  2. AllanTheCowboy

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  3. IWantToBeAHuman

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    I'm 18 years old . I feel bad for her and for myself
     
  4. AllanTheCowboy

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    How serious is the relationship?
     
  5. IWantToBeAHuman

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    We're still students but we will graduate soon . we had plans what to do after we graduated . if its possible I want her to be my last .
    In fact she's the number one reason why I started doing nofap. I want to form more emotional connection with her ,not just lust
     
  6. KJV24097

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    My first step would be to call her. A phone call is much more personal than a text message. It allows emotions to be expressed more easily without the use of emojies. It also will show her that you are serious about convincing her that you care. The next time you guys get in anew argument call her and talk to her directly. Even if you aren't fighting call her and tell her how much you care for her spontaneously. Leave a voicemail saying you just wanted her to be able to hear your voice tell her how beautiful she is whenever she needs it.
     
  7. AllanTheCowboy

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    Are you in counselling? It would help you understand what's going on from rebooting, and what stuff has to heal. Either on your own, or together, or both.
     
  8. IWantToBeAHuman

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    Thanks for the advice . I will try that and see if she appreciate it
     
  9. IWantToBeAHuman

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    Sorry . what type of counseling?
     
  10. AllanTheCowboy

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  11. IWantToBeAHuman

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    No , I can't afford that .
    Can no-PMO hard mode 90 days can fix this ?
    I think to much porn , masturbation and fantasies fuck up my brain . I want to be able to look to women from who they really are and not objectifying them
     
  12. AllanTheCowboy

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    Therapy will enhance the healing effects of NoFap.
     
  13. IWantToBeAHuman

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    I don't have money to do that and I more prefer to solve this by myself .
     
  14. Keep it up, bro. I'm 19, we have an awful lot to go, hang in there man.
     
  15. IWantToBeAHuman

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    Do u have the same issue ?
     
  16. Nah...I don't have during my PMO-stricken days, and not planning to find one as of now.
    2 weeks clean Hard mode.
     
  17. IWantToBeAHuman

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    That's good .. Stay strong man .