rebooting from looking at craigs list

Mate, you seem like you need to go out there and take a bath of women. Yeah, go out there and talk to any girl, doesn't matter if you feel down. If you want to get a girlfriend you have to live your life at your fullest. To wait for a girl to full your life, that's gonna get you nowhere . Fill your life with goals, go out to the beach, walk in a countryside place, forest, connect with nature. You have to show that regardless there is a girl in your life, you are out there doing what you care for.

I am 16 and everyone in my grade has kiss, lost their virginity, vape and do some other stuff. That's what is "in". And I have being crazy for this girl since 9th grade. We never got together, but you can tell shes has it for me. Regardless this girl is a swing girl, she wants, but she doesn't at the same time. So I decided that I had to keep moving forward. So i started talking to girls and they'd laugh. I kept getting involved with girls, I realized that if I actually wanted to kiss a girl, I could. I test it out, and almost got a girl to fall for me. So I stopped being desperate for women.

But I am al melted chocolate for the other girl so I haven't done anything. But if I stayed waiting for the girl, I would stay gloomy. So mate, show yourself that your life is good regardless there is some booty in it. When you stop caring whether you attract girls, that's when they will start dropping like tender melons.
So shake off the "down" mode and start shaking your life! I might sound corny, but that's how good stuff is sometimes .

Go the to library, talk to some girls, maybe you'll get rejected, it doesn't matter , because you are in control.
Stay strong and keep it up mate!

 

I also found the Craigslist casual encounters section to be a trigger of mine. I'd go to check out nude pics of local women and transsexuals and get turned on. From there I'd hit up the porn sites and it was over.

 

At least you were doing it at home.

I was constantly reloading Craigslist casual encounters during work. Pretty bad stuff.

 

Hi yukon, are you really from there? I'm from alaska originally, so i can relate to the cold, darkness, loneliness, and worse of all - lack of attractive women!! Sounds like you need more hobbies and activities to keep you busy. Women are attracted to passionate guys, but not guys passionate about masturbating to porn. I know. My wife is thinking of divorce right now b/c I'm not the same person as whom she married. This addiction is far more difficult than drugs or alcohol in my opinion. The drug is free and its everywhere, and it's not socially acceptable in the way we can use drugs or drink with friends down at the pub. I know how easy it is to slip, especially when you are home alone. What are you passionate about? Make a plan to accomplish some goal in that hobby or activity, and then put targets and a schedule as to how you will achieve it. That might help get your mind off, and then find a woman or two, not necessarily at the same time Good luck mate.

 

What type of hobbies are you unto? Maybe try some video games when you get the itch so long as the game doesn't contain any possible triggers like nudity.

Maybe take up a physical activity will take your mind off it more. I've heard weightlifting helps a lot.

 

great post

 

Stupid question but I see it all over noFap and don't know what it is: what's a "p-sub"?

 

porn-substitue - something that is actually not qualified as porn stuf but what triggers you the same way as real porn