hey plshelp just wanna say I support what youre doing. congrats for starting early, I wish this community existed whan I was 15. day 3 is always the hardest for me to. if youre looking for an accountability buddy let me know
Im on my furthest streak yet day 10 things are great and the urges get more controllable even thou I almost relapsed yesterday and yeah the support I'm getting from you guys really helps
Nice job man, u can see that have more control over ur self the more u stay away from it but still don't get cocky and stay strong and focused cause I was close to relapsing on day 21
Day 12 today and it's going well but yesterday I had my worst urge ever... I was fighting for about 4h (I'm sick so i had nothing to do) but quit. But after 30 min after I quit I got a really bad hurt in the between the bellybutton and the d. I almost coulnt sit down.
BRO I just read all of that and you've come along way to be on day 12 I hope your next message says your on day 13 bro! im also here cause of pmo but mines abit tricky as I always got girls to have sex with but I still pmo, I used to tell myself it helps me last longer but now I cant even ejaculate. im on day 14 after a lot of relapses even relapsing after ive had sex with a girl. dw bro this is all worth it in the long run!!!!! your gonna succeed soon youll be day 30
im so mad at myself... today i relapsed and lost in the worst possible way, rationalizing for and a couple of hours the loose it to porn. im going to start updating more often and go past day 15 now... the worst problem i ran into was watching porn. any1 knows a blocking program for the phone?
I'm not sure any blocking program works 100%. What works for me is just saying goodbye to porn forever. Don't count the days, just eliminate it from your life.
Im sorry i didnt post yesterday but it went well untill i was going to write then i had a minor urge so i had to get off my phone.
3 weeks, terrible. And the reason is that I'm afraid.. that I won't win over pmo and all, that I'm odd but in a bad way. I've been texting a girl and now she wants to meet but I don't think I will get attracted by her even though she's nice and 8/10. Now I'm trying to make sure I can at least act normal and that's why I'm back and I'm not afraid
So... im taking a break since ive starter getting PE and need to get rid of it asap since i dobt know when things might go down
You are making a tremendous progress, my friend. In my opinion, you've already come to a stage when you start feeling disgusted by looking at porn. From now on it will be good. You need to find something to do when you are free, otherwise you are prone to go back to your screen. When you get those urges, you must not be lonely. GET OUT of the room in which you might watch it and breath deeply. 5 - 10 deep breaths will help your mind to calm down and avoid becoming mad and losing control. I'm a 16 year guy struggling the same way. I found your thread to be interesting. Let us fight against porn together.
Okay so ive taken a break from this and honestly i think that im not addicted anymore so what im going to do is abstain from porn and masturbation the next 10 days and if i manage to do that im curves but otherwise ill come back here. Day 2 today
Okay... ive had alot to do, all my finals and ive been very busy. its not an excuse rather it was good for me! I dont get any urges no more and ive stopped playing games on my computer (never been a problem but i wanted to stop and get more of a social life). and these past weeks has been wonderful! ive met a couple of girls and i think i like one, im meeting her on saturday. but the problem i have is that i cant sleep! the only time i fall asleep is when i watch porn or otherwise it takes up to 1 h for me to sleep idk why. Ive always known that porn is my problem, not wanking but when i have a huge test the next day and i need to get a good sleep i feel forced to watch it, not cuz of urges but so i can sleep. can i get tips on how ill get rid of that?