I am tracking my progress here because I believe collecting thoughts here may help me - also since it might even be read BACKGROUND Typical situation, 31 years of age, used to extreme intense pornographical images, and with an extreme low libido now. Just last week I was intimate with this girl who I had met during a short holiday. She was feeling so bad that my erection was 'either on or off'. And this was the most gorgeous girl I have ever been with. So here I am 'again' as I used to know the reuniting website forum but now years later NoFap had sprung out of the ground. PREVIOUS SUCCESS I did rebooting, or as I shall now call it NoFap for around 50 days in 2012. I can't believe my latest success story is already that long ago. I clearly remember sitting next to a 50 year old teacher at the university and was amazed to learn I was getting aroused. I also remember thinking more clearly and needing less sleep. WHEN WILL I POST UPDATES? I try to be very honest about feelings of success. What I mean by that is that when I read success stories I might project/attribute feelings of improvement to myself solely because I unconsiously wish to experience this. (placebo effect). I will post: - Feeling changes * libido * energy levels * clearer thinking * needing less sleep * increased emotions / emathy * increased social confidence- Relapses - Changes to my plan - Thoughs I wish to share My last PMO was 19/Oct/2016. Good luck to all your readers!! - happy to read any response
Welcome to NoFap. We're glad to have you here. Reuniting huh? - I've been re-reading Marnia Robinson's book lately and trying to take it all in, Cupid's Poisoned Arrow. Any chance that your relationship with this gorgeous girl will continue on? If so, I would recommend either not having sex for a period of time during your reboot, or at least not orgasming for a period of time. It is worth it, in the end. Also, I would recommend posting a Journal and keeping it updated - in the 30-39 section.
