Hey guys! Was just after watching a show on BBC 3 about the porn industry and the affects it can have on the young generation. Only being twenty I'd still like to consider myself apart of that haha. Although it got me thinking about how fapping has affected my life. I've been in a relationship for about four years now and there is times my girlfriend wants to have sex and without fail I make up an excuse (not because I'd rather fap). Although as soon as she leaves, I open up the laptop and fap away. The reason for not doing this with my girlfriend was because I fap so much my sex drive is gone by the time I see her. I'd also gotten into public porn recently and it's started putting ideas into my head about cheating and its not because I don't love my girlfriend or anything like that, but its because my sexual urges to furfil these kind of fantasy's that porn has put in my head. One thing I'd rather not hear is to suggest these kind of fantasies to my girlfriend simply because she is not a porn star and it's unfair to suggest these kind of things and expect her to do them. I want to stop watching porn and stop fapping so I do get more sexually attracted to my girlfriend and maybe when she wants to have sex I'll 100% be more willing due to my lack of fapping.
Hello mate just read your post and can fully relate. I just joined up after watching that documentary too (though I thought the guy was a bit of an idiot, what kind of name is Tyger) he did have a point.
Yeah man couldn't agree! Like fapping is fun but it is affecting my relationship so got to do something about it! Hopefully all works out as I think it will. Get a new hobby etc... Do you know how to work this site? As in setting targets?
Not too sure how to work the site yet just new to it also. Like my gf has been saying about counselling etc for it but I said nah wanna do it through my own will rather than someone elses, not sure how she will react when I tell her about this haha.
The one thing i'm looking forward to is just not fapping and then having the ultimate orgasm with her haha!
