Hi all, I'm doing a 90 day reboot(well more like permanent reboot) and 13 days in I cannot help but feel like an idiot because things would've been way more simpler. I'm starting to discover who I truly am. And it's kills me that I missed all of this for 8 years. My focus is sharp as hell when it comes to school work, and when I'm doing martial arts, it's way easier to teach, and fight. Nothing feels like work anymore. I always hated wasting time, but I never realized I was wasting my life. TL;DR: Porn kills. I hate it.
Many of us realize this, usually later on. I'm 64 days in, just keeping pushing through the days. Work hard, and don't be complacent. But also relax sometimes. (Not with PMO). You will be desperately wanting to go back where you once were if you PMO.
also day 13 i noticed that i wake up early, less lazy,and when i'm sent somewhere i always go how's your social anxiety be honest
To be honest I've never really had a problem with social anxiety. It's not that bad. But after taking part of NoFap I've been able to hold a conversation better, and enjoy talking with others.
I talk my way out of it. Usually my urges/triggers happen at night so I just mentally say that there's no point to it and try to go to sleep. if that doesn't work I walk around and then if it's really bad I drink some water.
You're a martial arts teacher? That's awesome!! Keep it up, I'm sure it feels great to motivate and inspire others on your journey and help them reach the next level.