How do i get over guilt?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by TheStand, Sep 9, 2016.

  1. TheStand

    TheStand Fapstronaut

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    I feel guilty for no reason and I can't find peace, someone please reassure me.

    So today I took a shower, and I get tempted in the shower sometimes.
    It was time to clean Bob.
    As I was cleaning Bob, I felt that feeling that leads up to an O, I panicked and I turned the cold water on and continued washing.
    I overthink things a lot, so I'm worried that this is a relapse or if I edged.
    I'm scared of ruining my reboot.
    Did I relapse?
    Day 100
     
  2. ManDude

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    Day 100 is amazing. Your fine. Even if you Orgasmed you probably would t even loose any progress. Don't worry man your alright. Yes it's fun counting the days, I do it too. But the days don't really matter so don't feel guilty if you make a mistake at a far streak Bc the progress is still there.
     
  3. Low

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    No you did not relapse, you did not internally do it plus you did not O right? Also what exactly do you feel guilty about? Congrats on day 100 i only made it to day 83 even if you did relapse you would lose some of your progress but not a whole lot but that's not an excuse to edge or do it because that was one of my thoughts when i was on day 83 i thought if i just do it once it wont affect my progress that much, well i was wrong.
     
  4. TheStand

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    I feel guilty about the fact that I may have edged and relapsed and ruined me reboot.
    I seriously feel horrible.
    I also feel like my voice got noticeably higher pitched than it was 2 days ago.
    I feel like crying.
    I seriously feel like giving up.
    And 83 days is really good, for me the 80ish mark was pretty tough, but it got a lot easier after 90 days.
    Also, @IGY, you're a knowledgeable fellow and I look up to you, what would be your outlook on my situation?
     
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  5. Low

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    You really shouldn't feel guilty about it take it as a learning experience and just start over again that's what im doing i do feel upset about what I just did but I know what im feeling right now is not permanent and your always going to be able to get back up if you give it your all.
     
  6. TheStand

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    Wait, are you saying I relapsed or not?
    I just really don't want to ruin my reboot.
     
  7. Low

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    Well if you O then you relapsed if you didnt your fine.plus do you feel you lost the benefits if not then your fine you did not relapse.