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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Chris14, Aug 28, 2016.

  1. Aug 28, 2016 #1
    Chris14

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    So I have been rebooting for 5 months now I have had 3 porn relapses and at least 15 just masturbation and probably that many of sex with my girlfriend I went threw pied for months prior to rebooting and the first 2 months try to kick my addiction however it has subsided and I have returned to normal funtion thankfully. Now my question is being in an active relationship that is very much in the mend from porn along with severity additions I am pulling away from is it helpful or harmful or doesn't make a difference to have a sexual relationship with my girlfriend with the pied being gone but still being within 30 days of a porn relapse? Help please I want to here peoples thoughts. thank you
     
    Chris14, Aug 28, 2016
    Chris14, Aug 28, 2016
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  2. Sep 3, 2016 #2
    Darkstar 22.84

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    Try not to come while inside her. Actively find ways of pleasing each other while avoiding ejaculation.
    If anything on Your Brain on Porn teaches us, is that orgasm releases chemicals in the brain, similar to a drug addict having his fix.
    So avoid the fix, avoid the after-effects!

    Focus on No PMO & No Orgasm and you should be just fine.
    Surprised nobody has took their sweet damned time to answer you.

    Maybe because you got something they don't ( a girlfriend).
    Talk to your girl, you will need ALL the support you can get.
    Hope it works out for you, bud.
     
    Darkstar 22.84, Sep 3, 2016
    Darkstar 22.84, Sep 3, 2016
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  3. Sep 4, 2016 #3
    Marsbar

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    I also new to this and I am 18 days in my first ever reboot. Although avoiding P and other triggers has been relatively easy, MO is a constant temptation, but one I am so far successfully resisting. The reason for my response to this post is that I am away from on home on a business contract (I am using the time to get help) and will only be home again in 2 weeks. I set a 30 day goal specifically because I will be seeing my wife and there will be expectations (not to mention anticipation from my side). I too suffered from PIED, but judging by my morning visitors this already seems to be improving (I get straight into the shower though and it goes away). @Darkstar 22.84. one of the PIED effects, besides struggling to get an erection was PE, so I doubt very much if I will be able to control O, even if I'm just satisfying her. I was under the impression from other posts on this site that normal sexual relations would be ok. In other words, I would have thought that @Chris14 was on track? I am not confident enough yet to bring the the subject up with my wife so I want to appear as normal as possible.
     
    Marsbar, Sep 4, 2016
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  4. Sep 4, 2016 #4
    Darkstar 22.84

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    @Marsbar I didn't understand a fucking word you said, mate.

    Next time please, make more sense.
    Or else don't put my name in there.
     
    Darkstar 22.84, Sep 4, 2016
    Darkstar 22.84, Sep 4, 2016
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