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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Administrator Account, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. William

    William Fapstronaut

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    Hey William, some advice...you should probably change your emphasis from abstinence to recovery. By this I mean to suggest you might benefit from not seeing how long you can go without to shifting to telling yourself you simply will not ever do it again.

    I am in for the challenge. It could be until May 2040. I will never watch porn again, I will never PMO, I will never MO. Ever. Again. Ever. Why not? Because I cannot handle it. I can't handle or control porn; it controlled me. For me to overcome porn addiction I had to totally delete it from my lifestyle. I had to admit something very difficult to admit: porn was controlling my lifestyle. Now, without porn, I control my lifestyle. When you quit "trying" to quit, and finally reach the "quitting" stage, you will begin to take control of yourself.

    I want to see you free and clean. I want to see you go days, weeks, and months where you don't even think about it.

    Good luck on your journey.
     
  2. MJ Warrior 93

    MJ Warrior 93 Fapstronaut

    Not only i want to spend a month without fapping, but i want to spend the rest of my life avoiding any sexual stuff. I want to be healthy and active again so i can ride my bike on the streets, workout at the gym, play my guitar, and travel to different places.
     
  3. I'm here.


    Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever (not orgasming is dubbed "hard mode")?
    - All of the above. I'm married but my wife is pregnant and we're a little worried about the baby so we won't be having sex until the baby gets here.

    How long do you want this challenge to last?
    - For life. Porn isn't going away and I altered my mind by looking

    What are your goals?
    - Get a streak longer than 12 days. Forget about porn. Get a better relationship with my wife. Be a good worker. Listen and concentrate better.

    Why are you doing this?
    - Save my marriage. Save my children. Save myself.
     
  4. Jam_oni9

    Jam_oni9 New Fapstronaut

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    count me in,I want to be apart of this journey.
     
  5. marsgeek

    marsgeek New Fapstronaut

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    A week of nofap down. This is my first month challenge. This morning was a struggle for me, but persevered. Stay strong!
     
  6. dymanite300

    dymanite300 Fapstronaut

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    yep im in. whole of may, no fapping. sick of porn stealing my desire
     
  7. AshD16

    AshD16 Fapstronaut

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    I'm in! Lord help me!
     
  8. Ozzie18

    Ozzie18 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm going hard mode, no porn or masturbation or edging. I will go the whole month clean and then see what happens after that. I want to get of it for good and only see sex as something real and natural, not a way to "get off". Peaze.
     
  9. Hard mode.
    Forever. Well, at least for this month.
     
  10. GottaStop3412

    GottaStop3412 Fapstronaut

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    Hard Mode.

    GOAL: MAY. JUNE. JULY. AUGUST

    I'm destitute. I ruin my life with PMO. I avoid obligations, exclude myself from true loving friends. I'm eaten by this disease. I eat this disease.

    It's time to stop.
     
  11. jibjala

    jibjala Guest

    Coming in late, but joining the fun.
    Hard mode except sex with my wife when she wants.
    Going to try try try try try try try try succeed :-D
     
  12. Also in. Last fapped on 29th April.
     
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  13. acid dip

    acid dip New Fapstronaut

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    yes i am not going to PMO.
    i want this challenge to last till 3 months.
    i am doing this because it is ruining my carrier.
     
  14. CGI

    CGI New Fapstronaut

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    I know I am a bit late for joining this, but better late than never I guess.

    The reason for me joining this challenge is because excessive masturbation starts to have an effect on my sex life, I find it hard to finish during sex, it takes ages and 90% of the time I don't even finish.

    It is frustrating to have sex without being able to cum, it is like standing in a tunnel, waiting for a light that never comes. I have tried to avoid masturbating and not watching porn for 2-3 days and I finished during intercourse, even tho it took long, it is still a personal victory and seeing that a few days could have a positive effect made me want to join NoFap, I am in it for the long run.

    So now my goal is to completely stop masturbating and stop watching porn.
    I will however still have sex with my girlfriend and for the first month I will not take initiative to have sex. I will allow myself to orgasm during sex, as it is my goal.
     
  15. Mystic Gohan

    Mystic Gohan Fapstronaut

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    Ok, so my journey starts here. I want a 90-day-challenge.
     
  16. doublethink

    doublethink Fapstronaut

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    Im in too- started 1st march. Good luck everyone!
     
  17. Xwin

    Xwin Fapstronaut

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    Let's do this!!

    The reason for me joining is that I failed my previous challenge 2 days before the end of it.

    This time there will be no mercy. No prisoners taken!!
     
  18. Odegai

    Odegai New Fapstronaut

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    Well.... be stupid to be here without an aim.... I'm in
     
  19. shamrocknroll

    shamrocknroll Fapstronaut

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    You have my support and prayers good luck
     
  20. dtm

    dtm Fapstronaut

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    Well, I already let my addiction get the better of me, but do not fear my fellow Fapstranauts!:cool: Do not be discouraged by my failure for I will only keep fighting this! Remember: The only real way to fail is to give up! For some of us, it's a long and hard road, but we should not let that disturb us. For "the end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride. Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resided in the lap of fools." Ecclesiastes 7:8-9. I pray for you all, do not lose heart, but only keep on striving for the goal.
     

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