After three days without fapping I give in into fapping again. Great I totally regret that. I thought this was going to be easy but it looks like it's going much harder than I thought. Guys help me. For I fail myself for not having self control to overcome the temptation.
Not only do you fail yourself, you fail all of the soldiers fighting alongside you. You thought this was only about you? Wrong. This is about everyone who fights, everyone who struggles and everyone who needs support. We all walk together, we also fall together. Don't do this alone, mentally or physically. Remember, you struggle for all those who can't, all those who forgot and all those who didn't even know a war was upon us.
I'm on day 9 and atm I dont feel any difference since day 1 lets see what happends at day 14, my horny level is at 5/10 at most but yeah its still hard if u had this bad habit since u were like 16.
It is absolutley ok to fail after 3 days. Prior to my fist attempt i was thinking " a life without fapping? thats ridicolous". The most important stept in my opinion is to get away from "not day 0". If you manage to change your mindset you are on the right way, it will get easier, you will get experienced and your streak gets highter. Ever try, ever fail, no matter try again, fail again, fail better
Im almost on day 10 and I will try to go atleast 14 weeks then 21 days then 30, if I fail now it will be very hard for me to start again I mean who wanna count days again..I just hope something happends cuz I dont feel anything since day 1.
You are correct, it takes self mastery and self control to win this fight! Here is something that Im doing on my journey that helps me develop self mastery. I try to make small sacrifices each day to help build of my self mastery. I have a sacrifice box and i randomly select from it what Im going to give up that day (in addition to not fapping). so some days I give up youtube, other days i randomly select giving up FB, or energy/caffeinated drinks.... If we cant give up small desires, then we shouldnt expect ourselves to be able to give up stronger desires (like sexual desires to fap) that are not good for us . Forget what lies behind and strive forward to what lies ahead!!
