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thoughts on girls not shaven

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Ezio188, Jun 12, 2016.

  1. Ezio188

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    So I went to do stuff with someone last night but she wasnt shaven at all and it really put me off I'd usually want to go down on a girl but I couldn't. Does anyone else feel this is a bit turn off? I felt really arkward as I couldn't say it at the time
     
  2. Dizzy Lotus

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    I have no experience, but I wouldn't think so.
    Why does that turn you off?
     
  3. Ezio188

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    Well it just wasn't a nice sight it wasn't like abit grown it was bad so turned me off completely
     
  4. RecoveringScoundrel

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    This is just my own personal opinion. It's not something to do with P is it? Not meaning to create any triggers here but the women in P are generally hairless in my experience.
    I can't see the problem with hair. The way I see it is women grow hair there just like men. Girls and boys don't. IMHO it's a healthy sign of adulthood and sexuality which is to be celebrated. Plus I worry a lot of women who do that (aside from the bikini line) are doing it because they think that's how men want them to look down there, probably as a result of P.
     
  5. Ahddub

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    Well its never a problem for me because I dislike going down on a woman anyway... Ive done it before but have never enjoyed it
     
  6. Dizzy Lotus

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    I think I prefer them not shaving, actually. Well, some parts should be shaven, but others shouldn't, for me. I can live with girls shaving nearly everything, but I don't like it a whole lot.
     
  7. @Ezio188

    Hello Mate,

    well, you are not alone. :)

    My first GF was a virgin...and with Amazon Forest down there...

    I think I told her that I have just got a headache and then simply switched from sex to different topic.

    In the evening, I took her to the bathroom and shaved her.
    (Which was actually a nice experience)

    Then she took a shower and told me that she feels like a little girl.
    (quite happy actually)

    Couple of years later, we had a good laugh about it.

    What I would suggest:

    1. Have a talk with her.

    2. Be supportive. (obviously it is sensitive topic for everyone)

    3. For me: shaved means clean.

    4. Be a gentleman, offer her that you will help out.

    5. Make it fun. You can put a bit foam on her nose.

    The thing is:

    Relationship can be fun just because you need to sort out issues like these ones...

    Good Luck!
     
  8. JustinX

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    I fully agree with @tyler007
    For me, she do not need to be totally shaved down there but at least trimmed (1-2 cm max) so it looks nice & clean.
    I could probably fuck even amazon forest but I would definitely not eat it.
     
  9. Red Eagle

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    I think women who are not shaven are beautiful. Porn really made everything sterile and people consider it normal. Women are supposed to look that way, that's how nature created them. Pubic hair is there for a reason. It signals sexual maturity and is responsible for the release of sexual pheromones.
    Industry and porn give us an unnatural image of what we are supposed to look like so we can spend tremendous amounts of money on products we don't need. The preference for shaved pubic hair is only around since porn. Before that it was considered normal. So I would suggest just let her be like she wants. She probably feels uncomfortable when she is shaven, and why not? Shaving pubic hair is unnecessary and stupid. Start loving the female body as it is supposed to look and not the fake image porn gave us (make-up, fake boobs, everything shaven etc.)
     
  10. Ted Martin

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    I do think it's an example of how porn has affected what we think is normal or how things should be. Almost all women are shaved downtown in porn and so we've come to expect that is how a woman should groom herself. I think if a woman wants to be bald down there is fine. I have no problem with that but the style has been made popular by porn. I personally prefer a woman to be neatly trimmed. We see that same influence happening in more extreme and dangerous areas with really rough sex, violence, r@pe or men forcing themselves on women. We see that in many porn scenes and we start to think that is a normal, healthy, part of sex and yet it really isn't. I guess unless both partner desire that and find that is brings them closer and is somehow done in a loving way (which I can't conceive how that would work).
     
  11. Moogie

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    Not a turn off. You just got use to everyone being shaved on porn.
     
  12. I think it all comes down to individual taste.In my opinion I like my women clean shaven their legs and armpits must also be shaven.I am a fairly shaven guy myself.I hate the feeling of hair on my body.I have had sex with women who are were not shaven and I don't mind it too much once there is a little stubble.Going down on a woman who has a amazon forest is a no-no from me.I would still have sex with a woman who is not shaven but I prefer a woman who is trimmed down there.
     
  13. Ikindaknew

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    Back in the day, in the porn mags, women were hairy. Most of them would trim the pubic hairs, just like an haircut!
    Porn nowadays displays mostly hairless pussies. But remember, it was called a pussy because it had hair!
    I prefer hair myself.

    If the lady has good hygiene, no issues whatsoever.
     
  14. IGY

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    I agree 100%. I think hairless bodies of men and women are because of porn influence. They look prepubescent! Eww! o_O
     
  15. IGY

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    Well said mate. Pubic hair is a secondary sexual characteristic. so, why do men and women want to look like little kids? o_O
     
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  16. oreogirl

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    I think oral sex is very intimate and I can see why it makes some men uncomfortable. P has taken a turn heavily in favor of bj's, with ep getting very little screen time in the past 10 years. You guys who don't partake, you are missing out on a sweet intimate treat. I think the question of shaved pussy has everything to do with porn, and if you get a mouth full of hair... You aren't in the right place. On behalf of women everywhere educate yourself.
     
  17. oreogirl

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    Love what you said about sexual maturity, our culture's obsession with women looking like little girls, the rise in underage prostitutes, all symptoms of a very dark turn in the worlds' culture surrounding sex.
    I particularly love the guys who want shaved pussy and can't even keep their facial hair under control :)
    Maintainance works both ways.
     
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  18. oreogirl

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    Well said! And yes, most women do it because they think men want it, no one wants to shave anything daily.
     
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  19. ThatOneGuy56

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    I have no experience with sex, but I can see why it can be a turnoff for some people. I wouldn't personally go down there in the first place whether it was or wasn't shaved.
     
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  20. Ikindaknew

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    I shaved once and the wife was NOT amused. She said she didn't marry a little boy.
     
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