Feel lost

Hi Daredevil99,

Sorry that you are going through this. What kind of support do you need?

 

So, I can be a listening ear or a kick in the butt. Which would you prefer?

 

Pal, check out a great church with college ministry. All college ministers love new attendees and embrace them. If you have the guts to tell the college minister you are depressed, stressed and lonely, he may offer time together. If the one church is not right, try another. I believe your self image is low. I bet folks would love you. I bet they need you, too.

 

Anxiety in meeting new people is not uncommon. In fact most people, even the popular ones struggle to "look good". Outside of your studies are you involved in any hobbies or other interests? Having an outlet that is something you enjoy can give the confidence to engage with others.

I had to learn some of the social cues that others pick up naturally. Study people just like you do your books. Watch how others interact and practice. We don't have all the answers in life, but practice gets us closer.

 

Are you hooked on porn and is your computer or device your best friend? If P has make your brain a cesspool, you must stop PMO Unreal comfort. No porn, but exercise, good diet, and praying about you new career after college is a wonderful start. Do it!

 

I have realized that I do not want to look at P either. And I have pretty much stopped, because it can be an awful unwanted habit, "just something to do". You get onto a site and start messing up your mind, making dopamine and "bingo" some nasty spunk in your palm...Then, you feel like an idiot, because the action is NOT normal, it's addiction. There is an Academy or Boot Camp associated with this site. It's only $40 and I think, friend, the tone of your plea, is so strong, you need to shell out the $40 bucks and talk to a pro.

 

Dare, do you come from a Faith background? I am a member of the Christian Frapstronauts. We, and all Believers, if they really understand the nature of man, are a community of sinners, not saints! Grab a Bible, look at Psalm 1. Read it about 10 times in a day. Do you want to be that healthy tree? Please know, there is help, and God is your best friend, men fail. You are loved beyond comprehension. Join us!