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Day 30 - Finally orgasmed from sex after 7 years. (Age: 29). This is how I fixed my PIED.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Limp Biscuits, Apr 14, 2016.

  1. Limp Biscuits

    Limp Biscuits Fapstronaut

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    I lied. It's not Day 30. It's actually day 26 today but the rules say you gotta have minimum 30 days of rebooting to post here. :p (Close enough!)

    I've had EXTREME PIED (total limp-dick except when I masturbate myself). I haven't been able to have sex without sildenafil for years, which gives me erections but I still can't orgasm from sex. I always finish using my own hand.

    Anyways, I started this NoFap thing 26 days ago.

    Here are my rules:
    1. No porn.
    2. No masturbating, even during sex. (I need to make sure I'm not desensitizing my penis)
    3. No fantasizing, even during sex. (this is a porn-alternative that activates the same neural pathways as porn).
    4. Sex with people is allowed. (Having normal sex will encourage rebuilding the normal neural pathways and avoiding the porn-created pathways).

    I've been having random semi erections once in a while for the past few days. There have been some failed attempts at intercourse and a couple times I took sildenafil and had sex but no orgasm as usual. Throughout this time, I never masturbated or looked at any porn or porn-alternatives. I did my best to avoid any fantasizing at all.

    Finally, today, I had sex without sildenafil and then actually achieved orgasm. It was such an awesome feeling. I haven't experienced that in over 7 years! It's like being in a wheelchair for 7 years and then suddenly getting up and walking again! I had tears in my eyes. I used to think I'd never be able to fix myself but now I have!

    The erection still isn't 100% and doesn't remain strong throughout but it's enough to be able to penetrate. I'm gonna continue with my NoFap, following the same rules as stated above, and I think it will only get better for me.

    :-D YESSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  2. Ikindaknew

    Ikindaknew Fapstronaut

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    Glad for you!
    This is awesome news. There is too many NoFappers that want to keep masturbating and only quit P. I think that your recipe works better, as It worked for me also.
    Keep up the good work and good continuity!

    Cheers!
     
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  3. GSarosi

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    Major major major congrats. No fantasizing during sex is a very unspoken component to full recovery. I am having this issue because I keep flipping for porn scenes in my head to find the "right" one during sex for me to climax. Being able to just focus only on your partner during intimacy is something I really want to accomplish. Thanks.
     
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  4. Rav70

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    It takes time G. At about 70 days in I noticed my boyfriend was watching me during sex and not having his eyes closed fantasizing about god knows what.

    Limp your recipe for success is the exact one we've been using. Worked like a charm.
    Bf never has problem with DE anymore. You will only get better. Great job!
     
  5. Amenquaruzz8

    Amenquaruzz8 Fapstronaut

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    I'm happy for you bro, your on the right path, things can only get better for you here on out :)
     
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  6. GSarosi

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    Hmmm.... maybe not he is trying to gauge your reaction and probably not fantasizing about other things. It is quite a turn on when watching how my partner is reacting when I am at that point or reaching it. Yet you know him well so maybe you saw something in his eyes that tell you otherwise. I hope that is not the case.

    Trying to find that perfect scene for that moment is also the cause of my PIED. I know a few times when I didn't go that route everything was automatic. As Morpheus stated.... I have to FREE MY MIND!

    Since I have deleted my stash I am slowly forgetting those scenes and the names of my favorite porn stars so I don't have the ability to look and download them.
     
  7. Rav70

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    You just said in a previous post you flip your imagination for the perfect porn scene to reach orgasim. I think most PMOers do/did the same thing. My boyfriend included before his recovery.
     
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  8. Rav70

    Rav70 Fapstronaut

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    Why the need for sexual details G. It serves no purpose other than trigger. You could easily just say her movements.
     
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  9. GSarosi

    GSarosi Guest

    LOL. Amish country......
     
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  10. GSarosi

    GSarosi Guest

    Now looking at this again I need to keep this around to remind me since this is too on point for me.
     
  11. Ikindaknew

    Ikindaknew Fapstronaut

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    352476-trigger.jpg
     
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  12. karate01

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    I'm happy for you OP. That analogy about it's like being in a wheelchair for 7 years and then be able to get up is inspirational. I wish you all the best for your next endeavors.
     
  13. Limp Biscuits

    Limp Biscuits Fapstronaut

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    It's working for me, and I was a HUGE skeptic about this whole NoFap thing. Let me know how it goes for you.
     
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  14. @Limp Biscuits Nice to hear it! Happy for you man! Keep sticking to it, it will only get better!
     
  15. Engedi1

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    Sweet! good on ya bro.
    Keep up with the good work.
     
  16. Limp Biscuits

    Limp Biscuits Fapstronaut

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    AN UPDATE: Day 69 today and still going strong!

    I've had sex several times and still feel urges to masturbate. However, I've controlled myself. I keep a daily logbook/diary of my urges. It encourages me to stay strong and stick to my hands-off vows :-D Fantasizing has been the most difficult thing to stop... I keep catching myself doing it and sometimes I don't stop myself.

    Anyways, I've orgasmed from intercourse every single time I had sex. I took 25 mg Sildnafil a few of the times to ensure rigidity and man was I rigid! (Before this NoFap thing, 25 mg wouldn't do anything for me. I'd need 100 mg and even then it would be a 50/50 greatly dependent on my last meal, diarrhea, etc.)

    I *can* get erections now but they're still very weak, die randomly, etc. Now I'm on a plateau, I feel, with my progress in this NoFap thing: I saw a lot of benefits the first month but now it hasn't improved much at all.

    I'll keep sticking to this NoFap thing. I'm going to Bangkok in a month and a half and will be having sex with a lot of ladies there. So I'm hoping I don't need to rely on good ol' "V" to keep me rigid. Oh well, at least I can orgasm now, which is amazing.
     
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  17. Limp Biscuits

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    Day 72 complete.

    I've had sex three times since the last post! All times ended with orgasm! But all were in the morning (morning sex), so it was much easier to get and maintain an erection.
     
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  18. TrueHuman

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    Hell yea dude! Keep fucking those ladies! Have fun!
     

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