I went on two 90 day streaks followed by a few relapses and several other long streaks. I feel like this set the foundation for a healthy sex life with my current girlfriend. We've been together 6 months I'm happy to say our sex life is amazing. I feel way more confident in all areas of life, have made insane strength gains in the gym and my acting career is taking off as well as I just landed a lead role in a major production. It's insane to look back at the pathetic human being with no job, no girlfriend and no hope for the future I use to be approximately 1 year and a half ago and to see how far I've come. Today I couldn't be happier. I earn lots of money doing what I love, am in an amazing relationship and feel on top of the world. Nofap works !!!
Thats just huge! Congratulation to you, you have made a great progress and you are giving us strenght to go on! And I have to say, same here - NOFAP works. How for me? - i am heading to what I most wanted in my life - being connected with people and just giving smiles around and feel that people like you and you like them! Thats bigger than we can even imagine!
This is an awsome post. I bet that if you had a Scrooge adventure back then (seeing yourself only a year and a half in the future) you never would have believed it. This is what we strive for. Companionship and a good job. Your confidence in yourself and your hard work is what makes the sex amazing.
Thanx guys for the support. It wasn't an easy journey especially at the beginning. But hard work always pays off in the end and I'm happy if I inpired some of you guys on this constant journey of self improvement, and quit the virtual world of porn for real life experiences and actual sex which is obviously much more fulfilling.
Well done to you sir. My best streak is 34 days which I did a couple of months ago and felt like everything is possible. Currently, I've just become self-employed and want to make a good go of it whilst changing my life for the better via NoFap, but not because of it. I relapsed yesterday and today I've felt so, so rough. So rough in fact, that I can't even string a coherent sentence together. All the best with your acting career and here's to more success.
That's awesome, congrats on all the success you've had! Many people say that NF works, but you what I think? It doesn't work unless you do as well. It's probably been said many times, but I still feel the need to stress that NF is not a cure in itself, but it's a major booster if you work your ass off in all areas of your life.
Hi congrats to you, its very inspiring for me, because I feel like I am that guy at the moment, no job, no girlfriend, but I have focus and I want these things. So good reading your post, tells me it can be done.. well done
Can you elaborate on "healthy sex life" - how often do you get it on and how many rounds do you have? Sorry to be personal it's just that i got oral sex twice yesterday and my dick is dead. It happened on day 107 - i had one wet dream at day 72. I feel in the gutter!
Have sex 2 to 3 times a week with no issues. I'm able to stay hard and usually cum after 20 or 30 minutes.
No. When I first started dating my girlfriend I was able to go multiple rounds. Sex is very intense now just slightly less frequent.
Ifthisislove: Bro, you HAVE to let your brain heal. 1. Simply decide your never going to touch that thing again no matter how excited he gets. 2. Try to catch yourself fantasizing or lusting and change focus immediately. If you can slow or eliminate #2 then #1 will get easier and easier after the first week or so. Focus! You can't keep rewarding your body and brain when there isn't even a attractive, healthy, real mate that you can smell, touch, and see. Just be done with trying to reproduce with yourself. Masturbation in moderation is actually a normal, healthy, human activity. BUT those of us that have been addicted must abstain completely to retrain our bodies while our brains heal. An alcoholic can't have even one beer. We can't even have one wank. Just decide. Every day. Or every hour. Or every 30 seconds.
you are lucky guy . you are a lucky guy.but you earn the luck yourself.keep going and live a happier life.