For the past 4 days in a row i have been sexting this girl. Shes been sending me nudes an videos if her fingering, i have came an used a light grip an jacked to them 4 days in a row. Once everyday an we been doing this everyday. Its a real girl, we havnt met yet but she lives close an i really like her. Emotionally too. I havnt used porn but is this bad for my reboot? Shojuld i stop? What do people think
Eh idk i have been having some flirty textin with a few girls and ive gotten a few pics but did not masturbate to them. I still think fapping to an external image is bad, regardless of its a girl you are gonna meet.
No offense, but how would that not qualify as porn? It's you jerking off to sexually explicit material on screen. The only difference is that you know the girl. Bad for your reboot? I don't know - you're starting over and over and over ... The thing behind the reboot is that you need to give your brain time to heal. It's like your ears hurt from everyone around you screaming at the top of their lungs. What do your ears need to recover? Silence. Not different screaming noise. If you ask me, stop. Jerking off and sexting. Best to you!
yes it will be bad for your reboot, since you masturbate on pixels.. it doesnt matter if you know her or you are going to meet her soon. why dont you tell her to meet up and have fun?
Sexting is not to jerk off to - my opinion. If there is a relationship, messages like "I cannot wait until tonight" "This is what I am gonna do to you" or even a picture "Here is what you will see tonight" can be healthy and enticing. There will be a happy ending. Jerking off to any picture, video or message leads to nothing rewarding. I would try to stop if I were you.
Another point... Your "friend" is trying to receive some type of validation at your expense. In other words, she is using you. Don't fall victim to that.
So are the girls in porn pictures and videos. Porn is anything that is intended to/used to cause arousal. I strongly suggest going with your instincts to discontinue sexting. You should also consider breaking things off with her, or at least having a conversation about nofap, since she is likely to cause you to be stuck in this addiction if you don't do one of those things.
