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Difference Between Just Watching and Watching While Fapping (Question)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ShowMeHowToPlay, Mar 27, 2014.

  1. ShowMeHowToPlay

    ShowMeHowToPlay Fapstronaut

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    Ok. Well for starters i am new and this is my second post. Again my name is Rashad. Thanks for support from the community so far!

    Background: Im 18 (turn 19 in May). I started watching PMO back in 2006 (12). JUST watching no touching or fapping. We had DSL back then so internet was really slow. I could only watch 6-8 min videos (load faster) and had pictures. So the thought of stroking never came to my mind until 2009 when we got high speed internet.

    Its funny. I thought something was wrong with me because I saw guys shooting white stuff but mine was clear. Eventually in 2009 i started stroking and it finally happened...my first organism all "white" lol
    I remember every time i watched it (until 2010) my heart would beat fast and I would breath harder guess because I was shocked since this was all new.

    From 2006-2009 i had watched it maybe a total of 50 times.

    2009 i watched and stroked everyday and in 2010 my face suffered and i became depressed.

    I am currently 13 days in of no fapping but since it's been about two weeks....would it be wrong to just watch it and not masturbate? Do you think my face will go back to suffering?

    Right now my face is clear and feels healthy but every time i failed and reverted back to fapping it would break out etc. this is actually the longest i gone without stroking it.


    SORRY FOR LONG POST
     
  2. RRzealot

    RRzealot Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure what the general consensus is, but to me watching porn without masterbaiting seems like the epitome of pornography addiction (same goes for edging).

    Anyway I wouldn't recommend it because it will lead to you masterbaiting
     
  3. MysterMagi

    MysterMagi Fapstronaut

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    Pornography is the main culprit in this whole NoFap community. The majority of us turned masturbation into a problem once we started viewing porn. I say no porn. When you watch it while trying not to fap you are teasing your brain. Porn can also interfere heavily with daily life away from the computer (example: you may often start fantasizing about women you see while at a store or in school which can lead to bad relationships).

    Personally, I have struggled with watching porn while not fapping and it is very difficult at first. After a while of NoFap I ended up having a very minimal interest in sex and women. I believe this is my body's natural way of telling me to look for a potential life partner rather than someone to have sex once or twice with (although I am fine with living single and child-free for the rest of my life). I plan on resetting my counter on April 1st (not a joke) because of my minimal, NoFap porn-viewing (and because I feel much better starting on a 1st).

    Trust me, you will be better off leaving the porn behind regardless of your plans to not masturbate. As a 27 year old male who's suffered with porn and masturbation problems since I was much much younger I recommend turning off the porn while you are young. You will live a much healthier and happier life as a result.
     
  4. Toby

    Toby Fapstronaut

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    Watching porn is a very bad thing to do if you're trying to avoid masturbation. The only thing it will do is stimulate you and make you want to masturbate even more, often you will begin contemplating quitting NoFap just from a few videos of porn. Another thing to note is that it's actually possible to ejaculate without even touching yourself. When you're on NoFap you're hornier than usual, and with enough concentration and turn on from the porn videos, you can actually release a load without physical stimulation. I've attempted NoFap before and experienced this myself. I tried watching porn without masturbation, and I managed to reach the point of almost ejaculating without even moving a muscle, luckily I pulled myself away and shut down the porn before it could actually happen.
     
  5. -Eaten-

    -Eaten- Fapstronaut

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    Don't watch the porn. First it starts out as "i can just watch it and be fine". But then down line it will come back to masturbation and you're brain will be like "just once, i'll only do it once". Next thing you know you're back into the addicted routine. The fact that your questioning if it's ok to just dip your toes in is a sign of addiction. That's not judgement, that's a fact. Stay vigilant my friend, don't watch porn. Fight the temptation!
     

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