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Just found out about Hard Mode - Never

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Joseph Borne, Jan 2, 2016.

  1. Jan 2, 2016 #1
    Joseph Borne

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    I really like this website and I really like getting clean and over my addiction to P and M.

    That being said, I just found out what Hard Mode is, and I'm never going to do hard mode. I'm happily married and our marriage is GOOD!!! Something tells me that hard mode for a married man, is a really bad idea.

    Just my thoughts.
     
    Joseph Borne, Jan 2, 2016
    Joseph Borne, Jan 2, 2016
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  2. Jan 3, 2016 #2
    MightyKC

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    Just stop the P and you'll be fine. If you have a supportive intimate relationship then you're one of the lucky ones. No need to disturb that.
     
    MightyKC, Jan 3, 2016
    MightyKC, Jan 3, 2016
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  3. Jan 3, 2016 #3
    nalmao

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    Stop P, maybe even M if you want, and have fun having Os.
     
    nalmao, Jan 3, 2016
    nalmao, Jan 3, 2016
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  4. Jan 3, 2016 #4
    Headspace

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    Many (if not most) people here doing hard mode are single. If I was in a serious relationship I probably wouldn't want to do it as well. Don't worry, go with what feels right to you.
     
    Headspace, Jan 3, 2016
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  5. Jan 5, 2016 #5
    Digg217

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    Why do you view it as a bad idea?
     
    Digg217, Jan 5, 2016
    Digg217, Jan 5, 2016
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  6. Jan 5, 2016 #6
    Joseph Borne

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    Did you read that, I think it's a really bad idea for a married man? Because, I think the answer to your question can be found with a deductive reading of the key term married man.
     
    Joseph Borne, Jan 5, 2016
    Joseph Borne, Jan 5, 2016
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  7. Jan 5, 2016 #7
    Digg217

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    In the long term, yeah, it's not a good idea. As an experiment though, I think it could be therapeutic if both parties are willing. I recall reading about it in No More Mr. Nice Guy, there's an entire chapter about sex in which Glover heavily suggests going celibate for 6-12 months while married. If that seems like too daunting a challenge, then I can understand.
     
    Digg217, Jan 5, 2016
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  8. Jan 5, 2016 #8
    Digg217

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    Also, it was a simple question, chill out.
     
    Digg217, Jan 5, 2016
    Digg217, Jan 5, 2016
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