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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Life enjoyer, Apr 14, 2024.

  1. Life enjoyer

    Life enjoyer Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys so recently I received a hickey and a handjob from my girlfriend but I didn’t cum since we ran out of time since it was during a movie but would this affect my reboot?
     
  2. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    That depends on what your boundaries are of relapses. What are your goals concerning sex?
     
  3. Life enjoyer

    Life enjoyer Fapstronaut

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    My goals are basically just no pmo and no ejaculation except when I’m doing activities with my gf then ejaculation is okay to do but ONLY with my gf those are my rules
     
  4. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    So does what happened with your gf fall under those rules?
     
  5. Life enjoyer

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    If you mean if what my gf did was against them then no since I mean NoFap is basically about not watching porn and masturbating yourself right? So imo this is what happened Okay but I wanted to share this to see what people think
     
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  6. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    I get wanting to know other people's opinions, but you are ultimately the one who decides what constitutes a reset and what doesn't. The answer should usually be pretty clear; just ask yiurself if your own rules were broken or not.
     
  7. Zman99

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    Were you getting off to the movie or or your girlfriend?
     
  8. Life enjoyer

    Life enjoyer Fapstronaut

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    Sorry can you clarify your question I don’t understand
     
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  9. ThePerspicacious

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    A honest and serious question, trust me I'm not trolling you, you went to the cinema to watch the film or were you planning to do the intercourse before.
     
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  10. Zman99

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    As watching porn can ruin your brain but loving sex is health- who were you thinking about/watching when you were getting a handjob the actresses or actors or your girlfriend.. or both?
     
  11. Itsuki

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  12. Zman99

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    Or the popcorn guy? That could take years of rewiring
     
  13. Life enjoyer

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    Bro I was watching godzilla and kong so no I wasn’t sexually imagining monsters having intimate moments .
    And I was thinking about my gf while she gave me a handjob and hickey
     
  14. Itsuki

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  15. Zman99

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    Haha that’s good to know! It sounds kind of romantic I reckon you’ll be ok.
    Fun fact:Kong was an extra in Brokeback mountain!
     
    Last edited: Apr 18, 2024
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  16. Itsuki

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    if sydney sweeney was on he probably would have finished, easy

    places I can no longer go and feel clean: the car wash, the movie theater
     

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