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My addiction has ruined staying in hotels

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by superstorm250, Mar 28, 2024.

  1. Mar 28, 2024 #1
    superstorm250

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    My PMO addiction has made staying in hotels harder for me since it has become more of a trigger. This is because about a year ago, I was staying at a hotel in Vegas and heard a guy and girl in the room next to mine having sex one night. What I was hearing really aroused me and I ended up getting off while listening to them. Then the next morning, they started going at it again and I ended up masturbating with my ear pressed against the wall. That next day was the end of my time in that hotel and I was tempted to try and extend my stay in hopes of hearing them have sex again.

    Fast forward to today and I'm currently traveling and when I got into my hotel room last night, I could hear a guy and girl's voice coming from the next room. I didn't leave the room for the whole night (which was my plan regardless since I had been awake for over 24 hrs and driving for 16 hrs straight) and was trying to stay awake in case they started having sex so that I could listen. I had my ear to the wall several times last night hoping to hear sex noises, but I never did hear anything.

    It feels like I can't even stay in a hotel anymore thanks to this addiction since I have to fight myself to even leave my room in case the people next door have sex and I can listen in.
     
    superstorm250, Mar 28, 2024
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  2. Mar 28, 2024 #2
    Pictatasu

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    apparently it's your fetish
    that turns you on , it's the incognito situation and the fact that it's a little indecent , it's hard to fight it , but if you want it , it's still possible. maybe it's worth getting advice from a sex therapist
     
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  3. Mar 28, 2024 #3
    superstorm250

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    Yeah it is my fetish, but who knows if its a P created one or not. If you mean sex, I don’t think that’s possible for me since I have so little sexual experience at 30 and that’s off putting to most women.
     
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  4. Mar 29, 2024 #4
    Itsuki

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    All people get turned on from hearing people have sex through the wall? But honestly find your annoyance at them keeping you up at night. They probably aren't married, they are fornicators. Their immoral intercourse is keeping you awake so you will be tired the next day? I think the problem is you gave in too easily so now it is a sensitive point for you. Resist harder, that's all you can do. Don't put your ear up to the wall, that much you can do, at least when you aren't even hearing anything in the first place. You can manage that much, yeah?

    btw glad I'm not the only guy without much experience
     
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  5. Mar 29, 2024 #5
    ThePerspicacious

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    Do you struggle with voyeuristic behaviours in your life?
     
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  6. Mar 29, 2024 #6
    TheRaven8386

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    To most people this might sound outlandish and bizarre, but to porn/sex addicts it makes perfect sense. Yes once something turns you on like that it's hard to let go, but sex with your own partner I've learned is so much better....when I can actually manage it.
     
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