So tired of failing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BravelyKegger, Sep 2, 2023.

  1. I started this addiction at the tender age of 10. I am 25 now and still am addicted. There has to be some reason we cannot quit, something keeping us in this life-long bondage; It's almost as if a curse has been placed upon us.
     
  2. I know it's hard but I'd be careful about telling yourself things like that as it will only make it harder. It's not a curse, your brain has just got addicted to a highly addictive thing, of which there are many in this life. See it for what it is, not worse than what it is.
     
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  3. Icewarrior

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    "Christ IN YOU the hope of glory."
    I was given this exercise by another Nofap member: Try asking this question to the One within each morning and night, "What is my UNIQUE potential?"
     
  4. Xue Hua Piao

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    If you’ve been trying for ages and are unsuccessful I’d recommend finding a recovery group like Sexaholics anonymoud
     
  5. Matrofe

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    Hello. You are not that far from truth quite the opposite you are at the right path but not seeing it. I am willing to give you certain point why it may be like we were put on manacles, every scene the industry had producted or produces is mainly aimed to gain your attention so that is why there is so many scenes in one video, everyone likes something other or just brain-washed guy is not enjoying it anymore thus they put more there.I had seen research where it was pointed that what`s attracts men the most about women is face, we do not look at their cleavages but face at first that is why certain things are litteraly focused at maintaining or making the connection face of girl and watcher.They use all psychological tactics in their films,(I believe in God so I also add to the list the spiritual-like thing from demons but that is up to those who believe).The only way to undo the changes is the pattern you act, if you were caught by so-called urges by night 1,2 am? go to sleep before 7 p.m or do not use computer for certain amount of time and the vital here ask yourself do you really want to quit it or it is only that you want but really not and remember life goes on till breathe goes in ;d