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Day 0, Self Improvement blog

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by yosoymoi, Jul 14, 2023.

  1. yosoymoi

    yosoymoi Fapstronaut

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    I recorded a video today about, where I came from, Where I am now, Where I want to go, and how I will get there. Then I watched my own video.
    One thing I can do is get an accountability partner, I already made another post about getting an accountability that also has a similar time zone ( Beijing)

    I will update this everyday, it will include language learning, becoming fit and skinny
    getting rid of my lisp, and become more organized to deal with my ADHD

    What I really want is to be a great man, what does that mean for me.

    More important than being physically attractive and being financially stable. Is being truly great men. Men that every man wishes they were because they accomplish all their goals, everyone can rely on them. Confident, Stoic, Discipled, Well Mannered, Respectful, Thoughtful, Humble, Well read, Strong mentally and physically. Witty. Millions of men have enough to provide for a woman, especially a traditional woman that does not ask for much. Millions of men are fit enough to be attractive enough for most traditional women, especially since they have money. But few , very few men, are truly great men.

    Let me leave you with a quote

    “Only the disciplined ones are free in life. If you aren't disciplined, you are a slave to your moods.
     
  2. andyl

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    I love this, I love your approach and positivity. It's helped me to think about my own situation and feel a bit better so thank you. I'm new to all this, if you're looking for an accountability partner, I would be honored but my time zone is not the same as yours. I can try to connect with you as I'm awake late, but please let me know what you think first?

    Andy
     
  3. yosoymoi

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    Yeah why not, but can you download wechat, it will be hard to use other apps becasuse of the great firewall of china, My id is yosoygringo
     
  4. yosoymoi

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    Update back to day 0. However I went about 36 hours, and I did not watch porn. Right when I woke up I practiced Russian for with a Russian friend for a little over 30 min, and I spend about an hour practicing Vietnamese, then I talked to a Brazilian friend for about 2 hours, some of the time practicing my Portuguese. Also, she might become my future wife, she is a great woman, the hard part is that she is on the other side of the world. I also cleaned my room, it is not organized but it is clean. Today I woke up super late, I bought some potatoes and onions, I plan to cook some chicken as part of a meal I want to finish cooking tomorrow I will make spaghetti all'assassina. I will also boil some potatoes to prepare for tomorrow's meal, I can most likely practice my Vietnamese and or Russian with native speakers, and I can learn Vietnamese online for 2 hours

    If you want motivation watch this video.

    What the fuck is your excuse? No, seriously and I mean it for me too, cuz you know, we've all had that experience I don't want to go to the gym I am feeling like shit, my toe hurts. Everybody makes all kinds of excuses. It looks like she made zero excuses. She's like I have a handicap. That's nice. Watch me overcome it and do more shit than people with two arms do. I love that attitude. See where you stand up and you're like no no, fuck you, Mr. Handicap obliterates Your Existence and I will overcome in every way shape, and form.

    Remember Helen Keller . She was literally blind and deaf, but was still able to accomplish so much in her life!

    We can do this.
     
  5. yosoymoi

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    So guess what guys, I actually cooked the chicken and potatoes. It will make making tonight's dinner that much easier. I got my clothes out the day before. Soon I will make it to day one. Today I plan to do the following.

    Buy groceries ( 30 min)
    Organize my room that is already clean ( 35 min)
    Leave my house to practice Vietnamese with native speakers ( 2 hours)
    Not go to sleep now even though I am tired ( in order to fix my sleep scheduele)
    Actually, use my bullet journal. ( amazing thing to use to organize one's life) ( 10 min)
    Practicing Vietnamese on Duolingo,( 5 hours) I already completed it I just want to quickly review
    Talk to native speakers of Spanish,( 1 hour) I have tons of friends who speak Spanish but I almost never talk to them.
    Talk to native Russian speakers and practice anki while we are on video chat together (1 hour)
    Practice Chinese on Deerplus ( 1 hour)
    Cook the amazing Italian dish. ( 1 hour)
     
  6. andyl

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    DM me first as this seems to be working and we can figure something out :)
     
  7. yosoymoi

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    Day 1, lets keep going!
     
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  8. yosoymoi

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    Day 2 So, I got up really late today, i still need to work on my sleep schedule, I have not been watching any porn or any youtube so I feel like I am still on the right track still talking to the Brazilian woman, the more I talk to her the more I like her. My goals for today are very simple

    Organize my room,
    Practice Vietnamese on Duolingo, for a few hours
    Practice Chinese on deer plus for at least an hour
    Cook my Italian dish
    Go to sleep early
     
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  9. yosoymoi

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    So I organized my room, and I cooked dinner, I did practice Spanish by watching Netflix but that was not part of my plan. Still happy that I have food for me to eat tomorrow, and I do not have to clean my room, and I didn't waste time on youtube or watching porn. I also had only half a day, so i think for a half day its not too unproductive.
     
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