Hi, guys as you can read from the title, i have watch a P but did not touch my self at all, but now i have a bit of blue balls and my brain thinks like i need to relapse to get rid of that, what do u guys think? should i just wait and it will pass by him self?
i endured very painful cases of blue balls after doing that. and afterwards, was happy that i didn't finish. the pain was very intense. you should not watch p doing NoFap. this is of utmost importance. if you don't stop valuing lust, all you're doing is abstaining from gratification, but you never overcome the pain and/of longing, because you never stop seeing the lust as valuable. and it is for now, only in as much as you use it to relieve the pain of the pressure brought on by abstinence, but it will only relieve it momentarily. and then its a cycle. its literally racketeering, where you give in to the pressure but then you have a bigger problem on your hands (having to deal with the racketeers for however long they want.)
yes men, i did a mistake taking coffe and chocolate too late, i was tired and horny i watched a couple of videos but i did not touch my self at all, you think i should keep going and stop watching again, or i should do a full relapse and start again ?
I would only consider doing a relapse if you have a girlfriend or wife to have sex with. Would 100% not watch porn. Masturbation is probably a bad idea as well
Watching porn sets you up to masturbate and orgasm. It's rare to do one without the other. Even if you can ride out the crisis moment, it usually comes back to get you within 24 hours. Furthermore, since it's not just masturbation that is a problem but porn itself, is relevant. Reset your counter. It's okay. You learned something about coffee and chocolate and your own limitations, that's a good thing, now start over and try again. But this This is where it's truly at. It's not just that porn is bad because it leads to masturbation, it's bad because it locks you into an entire mindset that misvalues sex, love, women, men, and relationships. It cheapens everyone, and it makes you think a pile of poop is gold, and worth having. The further away you get from porn, the more you will realize how fake and temporary and worthless it really is.
i am in hard nofap since 4m, now after this hurge that i watched porn, im feeling like i relpsed even if i didnt touch my self, i didnt expect those consequences, i just wasnt aware of that, i tought the issue was the E and not the Porns, but it looks like is a combination, now that i am aware of those consequences i wont commint same mistakes. PS: after 1 week atleast i did not end up doing M and i'm now doing good again, the issue was that i wasnt aware of that consequences, keeping the path of no P and no F is easy. Trying steak to hard mode until my goals are not achived, then i will give my self the time to find a possible partner, for now i only care of my carrier. ( BRAIN HURTS AS IF I RELAPSED WITH E )
yeah... I didnt expect that watching P without touchimg my sellf would have give me such consequences, i really wasnt aware of that, now that i have learn the mistake, i will make sure that this wont happen again, i still have that "brain fog", how can i make it go away ?
I’m tempted to tell you a full bite of raw ginger will do the trick, but honestly I think it’s just time. You can try a hard workout as well, can’t hurt. A mouthful of Ginger’d hurt
I never got this btw, in past I did this a lot of time, and I even edged a lot without O amd never got blue balls and don’t know why, well that time is gone btw.
yeah... does S also give the same consequences of watchin P ? You feel tired, have some brain fog and less motivated to work ecc ?
